Do you like having your kid in daycare ?

We used a private in home daycare we loved and it was heavenly. Allowed me to get my work done and be present when they were home. Small group of kids, lots of communication, lessons that put my kids ahead of others in their age groups. We recently moved across the country and the kids are home with me while I work. Even with the toddler in 1/2 day preschool, I still feel really burnt out trying to do both momming and work. Talk to moms in your area (fb mom groups will usually share info if you ask). Tour all your options. Ask all the questions you can think of even if it seems silly.

I worked in 2 daycares & refused to ever use one. I worked as nanny bringing my 2 kids with me (until they were 5 & 2) & then became a stay at homeschooling mama. I know it's not ideal (especially with younger children) but if I was in a situation where I had to work from home with kids I'd opt for a babysitter or nanny. If possible I'd "leave" & sneak back in so my kids thought I was gone & they would chill with the nanny & not just try to come find me wherever I was in the house.

This is literally my life right now. She’s begging to go to school like her brother and sister but she’s only 2. I toured a daycare and I didn’t get any bad vibes and the reviews were pretty decent idk I’ve just seen too much 😭😭

I've worked in daycares at every possible level so maybe I'm biased. But a few things I'll point out. 90% of brain development happens between birth and 5. Childcare programs are equipped with curriculum and typically knowledgeable staff to not only teach and support development but identify any delays and assist with early intervention. Things happen but become news because it's not likely and it's public record. Anytime a LICENSED center has an injury or is out of compliance with state regulations its public record. Being involved makes a difference. Tour the daycares ask questions, build rapport with all the staff, inquire about volunteer opportunities if your schedule allows. Knowing and communicating what you need to feel secure is always helpful.

@Dana Lew why won’t you ever use a daycare?

@Taylor it’s literally soo hard :/ if I go with one it’ll have to have cameras for sure..

I tried a few and found one I'm very happy with. You need to be fussy, don't just settle for one because its convenient. I think childcare is really beneficial for them, if its a good centre. I don't know how you manage WFH with kids around! I've tried to with my toddler and it was horrible!

@Vivienne lol it’s so horrible but lucky I can do my job at my own pace so that’s the only way I’m able to cope.

It's a very easy job to get so it tends to attract a lot of people who frankly shouldn't be working with children. Add in the lack of education & understanding of child development & it's not an ideal environment. I witnessed a lot of abuse, both minor & major. I had quit by this time, but look up "lightbridge academy snapchat fight club". The one woman (Chanese) had worked their for years with multiple complaints from both co-workers & and parents, but there was always excuse for her behavior & she never faced major action until was brought to light. I've yet to witness a single mainstream daycare that is developmentally appropriate. Children are meant to spend the majority of their time outside & engaging in open-ended play. Most daycares are adult-led and start pushing academics at 3.

My 3 year old gets soooo much from going to nursery. She’s built good friendships with other kids and loves going. It’s really good for their social skills etc