A vent post

I don’t know how to feel. Today I started experiencing a very bad and severe abdominal pain, headache, dizziness and shoulder pain. Been experiencing pregnancy symptoms for a while but for 2 months all tests are negative. Last period was last year September. I was really in pain so I had to call ambulance and they rushed to me as they suspect ectopic pregnancy. My partner is due to go to work in the morning, leaves around 5:30am. He wasn’t happy I called ambulance becusss then he’d need to cancel work to stay with our toddler whilst I take baby with me. He said I could just manage myself and I’d be fine. He isn’t even bothered about what’s wrong with me but with his work. To not let the convo lead to argument I told hik if I don’t get my result back quick, I will walk back home and manage myself as it’s already midnight. And he said okay I should let him know. Am I overthinking he care less about me ?

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I'm sorry that's shit behavior. Of all the things to be worried about he's concerned that he will have to watch his toddler while his wife is in the hospital ? I'm sure you're not going to the hospital for fun ? I don't think you're over thinking, I'd be pissed if my spouse acted like this

@Hareem I am incredibly hurt. I found out I have ulcer that has now Affected my organs ans will need treatment. I told him on text and all he said was okay? When proceeded to they won’t give him work Shift again and it’s all fucked up. He just started the job. I feel so guilty but I was dying and I even had to take baby with me. I wish I didn’t tell him About what I just found out about My health

I'm so sorry you're going through this i hope you can get treatment soon and feel better. I'm so lost idk what to say apart from that's absolutely insane on his part. My husband is also very practical, worries about bills etc. And doesn't give me "princess" treatment but also would be concerned if I was unwell enough to call a ambulance and go to the hospital. Do you have any family/friends/neighbours/ anyone you can get some help from for the kids while you're at the hospital ? And deal with him later but honestly you deserve better than a man who doesn't care

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