Tell me I’m not the only one who’s dealing w this

My husband constantly tells me I’m doing nothing and I’m always cleaning the house and taking care of our baby. (I’m a SAHM). We are going up north and he excepts me to pack for him when he won’t even watch the baby while I do so or while I pack her stuff or mine. He tells me I only care about my stuff, when all I do is his laundry and everything for him and our baby and nothing for myself. I feel extremely alone and isolated. I can’t take a shower without him getting mad at me like it’s such a chore to watch our daughter. She still wakes up in the night 3 times at least and he never wakes up with her or attempts to even when I have to wake up early and he is at home. All he wants to do is play Fortnite and that’s why he gets mad at me for literally wanting to take a shower or do self care. He acts like he’s only allowed to and I can watch the baby but I’m not allowed to until she goes to sleep bc he can’t be bothered bc hes on his video game.