Toddler meltdowns!!

Toddler meltdowns! Hi mums, bit of an odd one. My girl is 1.5yo and is an absolute Angel. Bit cheeky but is very well behaved and well mannered. We've (on the very rare occasion) experienced her go full sicko mode and go absolutely nuts. Tonight being one of those nights. Hubby took her out of the bath (which she loves) and attempted to brush her teeth, like always! Except she was screaming, blue in the face and wouldn't calm down. I took and her and she went through phases of attempting to calm down and then getting hysterical again. We continued through the bedtime routine and screams and she fell asleep like nothing happened. Husband thinks to ignore it because it's a tantrum but I think she was having a meltdown? Like it felt far too wild and erratic, I don't even think she knew what was happening. Does anyone have any experience with this and how best to react? I want to let her know that I'm here through out all of the emotions but don't know if it might be best to let her feel the feels no matter how chaotic. Any advice welcome, thanks! ☺️
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My 19 month old has crazy tantrums at times like she is a screaming banshee and thrashes around banging her head. But I let her cry it out as there is no consoling her. After we have a hug and I talk to her about what happened. It’s horrible when it happens best thing is to try and stay calm the more attention I give it the worse it gets. But every child is different. My LO is worse when she is feeling unwell and tired. It sounds cruel but sometimes I just have to walk away and she stops.

My little girl had a similar meltdown last night, screaming til she was purple and like I was trying to murder her! She was just extremely tired. We'd had a big day of playing so I think she was worn out combined with being hungry as it was teatime. I gave her extra milk and put her to bed early x

my boy was absolutely great until 3 days ago now has insane tantrums, headbuts the floor, screams, throws himself again stuff if dinner isnt ready on time or if we dont get him dessert/fruit straight away after he finishes food or if we dont give him something we have which is tricky considering we have a 4 month old that requires a lot of attention as well🥲 I just smiled at him to try and calm him down, he is very good with words but cant yet express his feelings which i think is stressful for them at this stage.

I struggle with this so much! Because they don't talk it's so hard to know what it is that's upsetting them! Usually, with a tantrum, I know it's a tantrum cause I've said no or moved her away from something or taken something off her etc. whereas sometimes she's just screaming and I'm not sure why (like your example). If she's just screaming like that sometimes I put her down and just wait it out a bit but I still stay with her and offer her cuddles when she's ready, but sometimes what can you actually do ya know!?

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