Would you be annoyed

I am pregnant and ill currently, and have been for a good 2 weeks. This week ive felt so rubbish and thrown up so much ive called off work and arranged extra childcare. I feel absolutely terrible, nothing is staying down ive been up since 5. My little boy is on it today hes so lively and wants so much attention but im running off to the toilet every few mins. I get him settled playing and watching a show and just rest my head on my pillow for a minute, all paracetamol ive had this last week has come straight back up so my head is pounding. So im laying down and my partner rolls over and goes you ok i said no n that was it. He's gone back to sleep, not a care in the world for how shitty im feeling. Im so annoyed, hes the type to drink be hanging the next morning n not take up til like 2pm. But i took time off work and literally slept for 2 days while my ex had my little boy. I woke up got my boy up n out n slept until 3 got up to eat n do a couple housey bits n go back to bed for the night. This isnt ok to my partner he gave me a literal list of things to do on my day 'off' because well im off i can safe to say he was annoyed when nothing was done and i was asleep when he got home. The double standards is annoying here, n him not giving a single fuck that im ill.

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i wouldn’t be annoyed but upset with my man if he ever do that to me. it’s WOULD be nice and appropriate if he just comforted me and allow me to rest. who care about home duty stuff. they always will be there and part of daily routine anyway. if it’s important to him then he is adult and capable do thing himself to help you bit here and there. i would hate if he bring up “I work this long and my job is very hardworking “ whole speech deal. life is hardworking. big whoop.

You need to explain this to him in detail and start handing him a list of things to do starting at 6 am when he’s been out drinking to make sure he gets the point

Sheesh that’s frustrating, he needs to do research the effects the first trimester has on women, I would set a boundary with him and hold firm to your boundaries. Let him know your expectations while you get out the first trimester and if he doesn’t follow through then sheesh….. I’d say get a new man but I don’t want to say that as I don’t know your situation clearly, feels like you guys need healthy communication and boundaries then if nothing adds up still then 🤷🏽‍♀️😅

Annoyed? I'd be straight up disgusted. Time for a heart to heart about expectations, what support looks like, and what equity means for the two of you in your relationship. (If it's safe to do so, of course. ♥️)

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