Having a oversharing kid in a small town is dangerous

So I moved home to a small town where everyone knows each other with my kids like one does after a divorce. My 4 year old was invited to a sleepover at the biggest town gossip’s house . She was so excited for it , as I got their to pick her up I Hurd another girl ask what people do at sleepovers . Without missing a beat she started listening stuff off movie nights , play games, makeovers , snacks and sleep in the same room. Then my heart stopped “mommy and uncle B has sleepovers all the time , they even jump on the bed and have pillow fights . Mommy is a lot happier when he comes over “ uncle B is her dad’s cousin . Que the drama 😭 now the hard question do I call it quits even tho I’m madly in love with this man he loves my kids and treats us like queens or do we give it a real shot ? I’m scared once it’s officially he’s gonna to flip like my ex and become an abusive narcissist . What would you do?

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Why would you cal it quits just because other people know now if you guys are in love and he treats you well it’s worth a shot. If he changes then leave.

@Alexis we didn’t want anybody to know because we didn’t want the drama. Especially from his family he moved in with his parents after his divorce and they will probably kick him out for “ betraying family “ they knew we were talking and hooking up before and lost their shit so we called it quits “we were both single every time, but we kept finding out way back to each other “ . We kept it quiet so he didn’t get disowned my ex told his family I was the problem even though he was an abusive , cheating narcissistic. I just don’t want trouble for him

Hmmm I guess that’s just a conversation you guys need to have about whether the drama and him getting kicked out is something that is worth it to you guys if you truly love each other there will always be ways to make it work but it’s up to both of you as a couple but if i were you I’d have that conversation and see where his head is at before making the decision to end the relationship without his input

Definitely call it quits! If your kids are your husbands, they are biologically related to the maj you are seeing. That's not only your husbands cousins but also your kids' cousin. Which means they could have cousins siblings if you chose to have kids with him. In my opinion, that's some sweet home, Alabama shit. And already is going to fuck your kids up. Unless your okay with inbreeding the family bloodline....

@Zero they’re not biologically related . Both of their adopted dads are brothers .

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