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I wanted to spend valenties day with my girl friends since we already had it planned out last month & was going to spend time with my bf Saturday since we are both off, he was upset about it but last month he was okay with me going & now he wants to go out on Friday I said okay then he says nvm because we both work so I said okay cool I can still go to the valenties day party with our daughter & then he got real upset hung up on me saw him yesterday left from his mom house he said bye with no kiss so he still upset I really don't care about valenties day it's just a day & I don't always hang out with my mom friends so I thought it would be nice to do something on both days am I wrong for that? I just didn't wanna go out super late for valenties day & he didn't even have anything planned it was last minute,

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Nothing wrong with that if you've made plans to spend time with him Saturday. And he was OK with it to begin with .. sounds like he is trying to make you feel guilty by changing his mind continuously.

@Sara yeah it just feels like everytime I wanna hangout with my friends then something he wanna do pops up it's okay for me to go out with my friends & also spend time with him I'm trying to make things work, I need girl time as well,

Maybe have a calender (the ones you hang up). So when yoi agree on something it get put down. And that final. It's hard to get people together reith different jobs and shifts.. so when you can get that time together and he is fine with it first time. You should do it.... no changing last minute just because he changed his mind Also if you life together to see each other everyday. Friends you don't. Enjoy yourself x

Valentines day is an excuse for partners to be extra nice when it would mean more om any day. So dont let someone play that card. X

@Sara thank you so much girly I really appreciate it!

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