Would this annoy you?

So basically my daughter's been poorly all weekend with a cough, snotty nose, temp and very lethargic. She perked up yesterday, asked for food and wanted to play etc. I said to my partner I'll see what she's like tomorrow before I chose whether to send her to nursery or not as if she just wants to be with me, I'll not be sending her for the sake of sending her. She didn't wake up until 10am today, so I'd rang the nursery and said she was poorly so wouldn't be in. My partner sighed and went well I wanted to go shopping today - it's my last day off tomorrow (he works 4 on /4 off). He's now huffing and puffing around the house. Sat with a right face on him. I get it's frustrating, but she's not very well, she's just cuddled in, not wanting to play etc. Would you be annoyed?

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Why can’t he go shopping without you??

@Ani God knows. I've said I'll transfer him some money so he can go shopping if he's that desperate too. I think it's because he's back to work Thursday & won't have a chance to grab anything for Valentines Day - which I'm totally not bothered about. But he hates sitting in on his days off.

Can you not do something tomorrow if you send your little girl back to nursery?

@Rachel well that's what I thought we'd do!

I can't see his issue then 🤷‍♀️

He is an adult, he can go shopping by himself.

seems like he’s putting himself first over his daughter. Let him strop it out and don’t give him the satisfaction of even acknowledging it. He wants to act like a child, treat him like one x

I'll be honest, as much as I understand kids getting ill, it doesn't stop me getting a bit disappointed if I have to keep my son home and cancel/change plans. I get over it and never blame my son, but doesn't mean I can't be disappointed, so I do kind of get where he's coming from. But these things can't be helped, and he can still go without you

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