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My husband isn’t the best at gifting, if I tell him that I want something, I have to be very specific about what and he’ll get it for me. That being said, he’s incredible at planning trips and outings for us, he makes sure we both get to do something we’ll find enjoyable and every day he makes sure I know how much he appreciates me and what I’ve done around the house.
@Kim my husband is similar. He's much better about gifts than he used to be. That's my love language, giving and getting. His is more acts of service. He's very thoughtful.
I’ve bought my own card lol, but said if you want to contribute to my hair done feel free & he has sent the full amount so I’m happy 🤣
For my 21st birthday, he booked us a trip to Paris between 13th and 16th of February so we spent Valentine’s Day there 🥰
@Rachel my husband says “I don’t understand gifting because I think stuff sucks. Why would anyone want to get stuff? but I know that’s my problem.” He really appreciates me being pretty good at gifting and always gives me credit for anything we gift someone lol
Before me and my husband got married he used to treat me well, we would get gifts even if they weren’t the most expensive (it’s the thought that counts) since we’ve been married (5 years now) that’s all got out the window. He says “were married now what’s the point of giving gifts or being romantic” lol. No effort whatsoever on his part since being married to him. Take me back.
Not too much but neither am I, honestly!
I’m not really into gifts but he puts a lot of effort into little surprises, big surprises (our engagement was straight out of a movie), and planning adventures together. He’s also a writer/musician and very emotional so I get the most beautiful hand-written cards on every special occasion and constant serenades.
He thinks he’s romantic but I have yet to see it. He try’s though and that’s what matters! He gets me flowers. That’s kinda the extent of his romantic gestures. 🤷🏼♀️ lol I don’t think he know how to be romantic.
He doesn't really but I also don't enjoy fancy date night plans. He knows what I do like and he's amazing at fulfilling those wants/needs
He's really into gifts, but at a detriment. I like more practical things and he runs off and buys a giant stuffy.
He’s romantic in the sense where he’s never missed a booking for any special occasion- I already told him at the start if he’s not willing to wine and dine me for the rest of the time we’re together I can find someone who will 😂 I’m not a gift girl, still love them don’t “expect them” but I’d be super disappointed w my FOMO if I was sitting at home on Vday and not having a nice meal out. It’s also easier to ring up and make a booking instead of going out and scratching his head as to what gift to buy me so I said DW about the gifts.
Where's the not at all button lol
My husband is very thoughtful with gifts for me. Always has been. He bought me a “Mommy and Me “ journal to work on with my son 😍
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I am such a romantic and I wish my husband could be romantic with me but unfortunately he's not. I know he loves me tho. I think the most romantic thing he did was when I stubbed my toe he rearranged the bed so I never stubbed my toe again. He always makes sure I'm comfortable and always gives me the better things or lets me pick first. I just wish he would plan a date for us or do some grand gesture. Even his proposal was not romantic. We were sitting on the couch and he said I would like to take you to pick out your ring today.
Honestly he’s so good with planning dates and trips and being thoughtful. Even things I wouldn’t have thought I liked, he’s put me onto. I always say he doesn’t get half of what he gives me in this area 😭