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Partner didn’t have sex with me - weird?

TMI*** so my partner came home from work and randomly decided to go down on me out of nowhere. I thought it would have lead to sex but it didn’t. This never happens, ever. He only goes down on me before or during sex, he never does foreplay just randomly with no intention of sex. He was going all out, trying to ma...

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Ughh

So I’m gonna be completely honest if a girl tells me that she’s not gonna reach out first and I got to and I have to fight for a fucking friendship then I’m going to not try because I’m not going out of my way if they can’t go out of their way that just makes me push away not trying to sound mean or anything but it’...

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Money

My maternity pay has just gone down and I’m now relying on my fiancé to help with money and this is the first time since I have turned 18/19 that I’m not just relying on my own money and I’m struggling to accept it I don’t want to go back to work yet my lo is only 5 months and is being bf but I’m going to feel bad r...

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Need Friends

Hello. I'm new here & I would love too make new friends

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Husband wants to show me off

What does it mean when a man wants to show off his partner? Like he wants me to have cleavage and short skirts etc. normally I’d think a man wants to protect their woman from other mens eyes, but my husband loves it. He knows I’m a loyal person so he probably doesn’t worry about me flirting with guys or anything, bu...

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Husband cheating while I’m pregnant

I’m 23 weeks pregnant and going through a really tough time. I recently discovered that my husband (married for 1.5 years, together for 8) has been seeing escorts since December 2024, even during my difficult first trimester and recent work trips. I found texts, transactions, and location data but haven’t confronted...

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What’s the reason you and your partners separated/divorced?

I definitely need marriage counseling but my husband isn’t open to it. What’s the last draw to separate? It isn’t always about cheating is it?

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I feel so low.

LO is 5 months and I'm just feeling at an all time low. My partners only "engaging" convo is about sex, or lack of sex or jokes like "want to see my d**" that I just don't find funny with them being so reoccuring, and then things he does that I don't agree with with our baby he'll instantly turn it around on me and ...

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Leaving baby

My baby is nearly 8 months, and I'm starting to think about going out and doing things without him for an hour or two. Since he was born, the longest we have been apart is about 30 minutes. I'm on maternity leave until he is 15 months, but want to slowly transition him into being around other caregivers. How has eve...

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Friends🥰

I’m 21 y/o and 6 weeks pregnant with my first. Would love to make long term friends who relate💕

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BD abusive

Relationship has gone downhill recently and we now live separately since he punched a door and smashed Moses basket over a disagreement when baby was 1month old. I’ve been staying with him on and off the past 7months and in this time he threw a high chair down the stairs towards me, slapped me and slashed my tyres h...

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Looking for friends (Plainfield area)

I have a four month old little one and looking to make some mom friends!

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Baby groups

Does anyone attend any baby classes/groups in the Bradford area ?

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Looking for friends on a similar journey 🥰

Hi! I’m 21 years old and 6 weeks pregnant with my first baby. I live in California and I don’t know anyone in the same journey as me. Let me know if you relate and you’d like to be friends hopefully long term! 💕

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Anyone in their 20s and having their first?

Looking for friends around where I am in my pregnancy! I’m in California, I’m 21, and 6 weeks with my first. I’d love to make some long term friends who are similar! 💕

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Any mamas in Lexington, KY?

Trying to find some mom friends out here!

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