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Is it bad to use BC behind my husband’s back?

I do want another baby but I don’t think my husband is up for it yet. He’s just now as of being released from hospital quit drinking and our baby is almost 9 months old. He’s had bad issues. We had a beautiful first baby’s Christmas vacation planned and paid for that he ruined with his drinking and ended up in hosp...

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Help

I’m 12 weeks pregnant I was content with welcoming a 4th child , however … I don’t want to be tied down to the guy I’m with , he pretty much forced his way in to my home and in to my life , he’s not living with me and I just want this all to end … so I’m considering an abortion… I know I know I should’ve kept my le...

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need friends!

random picture of my baby and i for attention 💖 hello! my name is vanessa and i am a 26 year old FTM to a beautiful 11 week old girl. i am from texas. i am looking for friends either local or even just online because postpartum has been insanely lonely and isolating, but i also didn’t have many friends before to…

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I like to separate friendship and relationship like my boyfriend ain’t gonna be around my friends and I ain’t going to be around his friends. Works best for me that way. Wbu?

Maybe I am like this from experience:)

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I know I should leave but don’t want to be a baby mother to two different men smh

I met my last daughter’s father 2 years ago and everything was amazing at the beginning. But after finding out I was pregnant really quick into the relationship everything changed, his baby mother became very present in the relationship and he stopped helping in the house He just ust thought his presence was enough...

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Can I stay with a cheating baby daddy

We have a 1 year old and my baby daddy cheated through our relationship. At the beginning of when I was pregnant and whilst we have had our daughter. I found out back in August and left but feeling really lonely and want to be a family. Do you think there is any chance it would work or am I silly to even think he co...

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How often do you drop your phone?

Ladies, this will be a two part post. Part 1 is this poll. How often do you drop your phone vs your husband?

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Crying and in need of a friend

I really need a friend like genuinely. Not no messy relationship but a sisterhood. I am an introvert so it has been hard to maintain friendships and conversations in the past but I’m to the point where I’m losing my mind. I haven’t had any real friends or family since being here in Chicago and I need my kids to be a...

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MyMFT app issues

Is anyone else having issues with MyMFT app? It keeps saying we're having issues logging you in and connecting to the server. I've closed app and restarted my phone several times (which will occasionally allow me in) but this has been going on for almost a week. Anyone else had this and know what the fix is or ...

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Need advice from an experienced moma or anyone really don’t know how to feel anymore

So the child of my child and I have been off and on for 5 years we met when we were 14 and 17 and we just had a baby 5 months ago and he’s been in and out he left when our boy was born really he’s the one who wanted to have a baby and now I’m doing it by myself which I love I feel so bad saying it but it’s easier wi...

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Mum Snapchat group

A group chat on Snapchat, no judgment from other mums and new friends are created and nice atmosphere Put ur Snapchat down if u wanna join

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Looking for some friends to start a group chat with.

I don’t have any friends so I’m looking for some :)) I want to create a group chat. Let me know if you’re interested!!

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Friends /bestie

Does anyone want to chat I so need a bestie/friends having anxiety is making me find it hard to make friends or unless people don’t want to as I tried to make friends on here no one talks or reply’s Even if your not in my area I’m happy to be online friends 🩷 I’m in uk 🇬🇧

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Play groups / mums groups

Hi! I have a 4 week old baby girl and am eager to join a mothers group / play groups in the New Year in the Oxley, Sherwood, Graceville, Jindalee areas. I love the look of the Modern Mums Group in Morningside but think a 30-40 minutes drive would be too far?!

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Mum Snapchat group chat

A group chat on Snapchat, no judgment from other mums and new friends are created and nice atmosphere

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new friends?

i’m in NEED of some mom friends. rather it just be online friends or friends i can see in person! anythingggg 😭🩷 (photo of me cause why not)

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