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in need of support 😢

I’m currently 30 weeks pregnant and we got married just 21 days ago. . My husband hasn’t ever had a high libido but it did come back for a long time, fast forward to since I’ve been pregnant and about 3wks prior to finding out. We haven’t had any physical contact sexually for all this time now and he said it’s him...

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Boyfriend OK’ed me meeting/hookups/dating girls

We’ve talked about this before, but I didn’t think he was serious. We talked today and he knows how attracted I am to girls. To the point he even was like “well, yeah you’re gay right?” He only asks to be involved a little, at least to watch me enjoying myself with a woman. He doesn’t really have a high sex drive an...

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Idk why I do this to myself everytime but I let in everytime my bd says he wants to have sex with me the kicker is tho yall listen

He doesn't mind telling me I'm not his gf and he's not my bf and also doesn't mind asking me for favors but he'll throw in my FACE anytime he feels like it that I'm not his gf and to stop acting like it? but he'll ask me for...... make this make sense he threw it in my face again , I told him don't ask me for nothin...

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Power Move

I’m seriously considering cutting my husband off from sex until he agrees to discuss problems we are having in our marriage. Sex has always kind of been our temperature gauge or plumb line or whatever for how things are going but lately it’s just become a crutch when nothing else is working. It feels like the only t...

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Demonized for being a republican

I voted for Trump. I miss the economy we had when he was in office. Being that I’m an American, I love the idea of “Making America great again.” My best friend of 15 years who hasn’t been in a relationship since I’ve known them, glorifies the single life, and isn’t even in a relationship hung up on me because I ment...

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iMessage!

Any mamas wanna text? I’m bored and just wanna talk to somebody

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PP SEX

Will sex be painful now at 6 weeks mark ? Kinda scared of how it’s going to be 😭😩 Someone please tell me your experience!!

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Newbie

Looking for mom friends . 🥰

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In need of Mom friends

Hi everyone, I am a SAHM with a 10 month old baby girl. I feel desperately in need of some mom friends:( I live in a rural area and unfortunately do not have many mom connections in my area. So I’m looking on here to see if anyone else is in a similar situation in hopes of maybe finding one or two people I can text ...

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Anyone else have these fantasy ?

Somtimes I just wanna be with a women Urgh I’m craving the hot sex with one and it’s hard cuz I’m married to a man . but I have those fantasies. 😅🤷‍♀️😍fyi I am bi-sexual so I do for sure love man and women

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Bestie?

Just looking for a bestie, preferably local but not fussed. Just want a bestie who I can text and have a good friendship with. Anyone interested, just message me or comment on post ☺️

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Looking for a mom bestie

Hi, I’m a mommy to 2 beautiful girlies and currently pregnant with my 3rd child 24wks and 3days. I’ll love to have a mommy friend to social everyday. I’m a SAHM that never has nothing to do but take care of the kids. So if you’re interested shoot me a msg or comment. I’m down to be friends from where ever you live a...

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Is your feed also flooded with ask a marriage therapist posts?!

Its like a link or something

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Moving across the us at 36 weeks pregnant? Good or bad idea?

we are about to move across the US back to our home town in January.. about 3,000 miles worth of travel. Which is also the month I’m due in. It was completely unexpected and extremely bad timing that our lease ends the same month I’m due. So our fault I guess. We were planning on staying at our current apartment aft...

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Are you an apple or android mom?

Apparently this is a thing who knew. Won't bother with the back story. What kind of phone do you have?

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Looking for friends

Looking for friends to chat from anywhere about the day, it can get lonely sometimes! Struggling with the loss of my mom last year, looking for some positive light ♥️

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