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Partner asked for blowjob

I'm 22 weeks pregnant and my partner said tonight that if I didn't give him a blowjob he would go elsewhere. I've felt rough since 6 weeks pregnant and we havnt done anything intimate. Am I right to be upset?

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Sex feels different

So since I’ve given birth to my daughter just over a year ago, me and my partner very rarely have sex. Before and even when I was pregnant we would a lot but after I gave birth I just never was in the mood and was still healing from having a traumatic birthing experience. Anyway I am defo way past that and would lik...

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BD infidelity

I need advice. I was 4 weeks postpartum when my husband and I got into a fight. It was so bad that he stormed off and went to work 3 hours early and didn’t talk to me. Well the next night, he saw me on my phone through the baby monitor, and told me I was “cheating on him” and called me all sorts of names. Well the n...

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What do i do ?

So my husband of 15 years who is abroad due to work called me saying he is leaving for airport to go to another city and then few minutes after hanging up he texts me saying “just leaving for airport sweetheart “ and he never calls me that . He has not been acting suspiciously before this and i have never questioned...

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Feeling super vulnerable in my relationship…

Has anyone else been feeling crazy vulnerable throughout pregnancy? My partner couldn’t be any more supportive if he tried, we have a very happy relationship but for some reason I’m convinced he’s going to leave me (totally unreasonable to think). Has anyone else felt like this and how do you manage it?😭

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Don’t want sex at all

Firstly, just to state my partner is putting NO pressure on me whatsoever. But the idea of sex is just so… meh to me now. I just can’t imagine wanting it, I feel like it’ll even feel awkward. Being totally honest my partner and I never exactly had a steamy relationship before the baby, but now the idea of having se...

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MY FRIENDSHIP ADVERT

Hi, please feel free to comment or message me if you think we should be friends. Rather than asking a bunch of questions and waiting for replies this is some general information about me. Ideally would like someone to hang out with eventually (: - I live in London - I like arts and crafts and I love going to art ga...

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Newborn rights

I NEED help please. My BD has been awful and so unsupportive since about 2 months in to my pregnancy, its at the stage i dont want to see him at all now. He wants to be involved & too much so! Im talking practically moving in to my house when baby is here as he never knew when to leave before! (Although he’s got 5...

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Dumb decisions during PP

I need a place to vent and also a place for advice on something really dumb. My husband and I went against doctors orders and had sex 3wks PP. by this point I had been on birth control for a week, am not breastfeeding or pumping and solely formula feeding. I expressed to him a fear I had that we should have been mor...

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should ex bf be there when i give birth

my ex boyfriend has been as unsupportive as anyone could be during my pregnancy but he says he wants to be there when i give birth and that he wants to be on the birth certificate. but he also claims that the baby isn’t his. should i just tell him after i’ve given birth that i’ve had the baby? also i’m thinking of...

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South Jersey

Hi! I have a 7 month old & I'm SO BORED🙃- that being said Any moms want to get together sometime? This week- Coffee, mall or just walks in parks, lunch?

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The mental load of womanhood is no joke. 😩

Reminding partners about appointments, activities, chores – it's exhausting. 😴 Any tips for the ladies who have just had enough? 👀 Share your tips and experiences below. 👇

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Labia pain after sex?

Hey all! Does anyone else get like a throbbing pain around their labia after sex? It’s not my vagina that hurts it’s the outer labia. Idk if it’s just sensitivity due to increased blood flow or what but I don’t feel any kind of pain during sex it’s just afterwards. Would lube help? Or maybe apply like one of those p...

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Truth

Has anyone actually made friends on this app?

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MY FRIENDSHIP ADVERT

Hi, please feel free to comment or message me if you think we should be friends. Rather than asking a bunch of questions and waiting for replies this is some general information about me. - I live in London - I like arts and crafts and I love going to art galleries and installations! - I love books, mainly non fict...

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Is any mom available to talk?

I need some mom freinds to talk to. My inbox is open if anyone is free to chat.

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Help

Tomorrow is our 10th anniversary and my husbands planned nothing. Pretty much what I’ve said. I’ve planned every anniversary so far and he was the one who wanted to plan our 10th. I tried to pull some last minute things together but in all honesty, this makes me question our whole relationship.

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Mommy and baby meet ups

Anyone out there in a consistent meet up group for their littles? I have a 6mo old that I think needs to meet other babies and I would love to make mom friends! Zoo trips? Walks? Park dates?

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Stay at home moms looking for friends

I’m a stay at home mom looking for real friends! My husband has friends and goes out for guys night and I’m so jealous! I want to be able to have girls night, coffee mornings, play dates, something anything outside the 4 walls of my house. I’m in Frankfort if you want the same thing.

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Poly relationship advice needed

Okay so I need help. My husband and I have a girlfriend it started out as a couple swap and her husband after the last time we all saw each other ghosted us and hasn’t been talking to us, but we’ve kept in contact with her and she’s became our girlfriend and we are very attached to her because she is fits our vibe...

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