BD does not love me wants my baby

I’m so upset and so so sad . My partner and I have been arguing so much . I just became a FTM in December. He is always yelling at me, makes me feel like I’m not good enough . Actually told me if I think I’m doing my best it’s not good enough . He’s told me I’m doing a terrible job as a mom because I have been tending to my son’s cries . I just feel like he’s always trying to tell me what to do all because he’s got a child from a previous relationship. So I had enough and wanted to take a day a break . He told me to get out of his house and I told him I would go but I wasn’t leaving our 2 month old . He basically told me I wasn’t taking his son or he would call the cops and say it’s kidnapping . This is someone who claims they love me would do anything for me , but always arguing with me about everything. And it’s only been 2 months , his expectations of me are insane . Now I’m out of his house and I have to share my child with him on some crazy switch off every few days and I’m devastated. I can’t go without seeing my baby boy everyday especially at this age . He says no judge will give me full custody because he’s not an absent father

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Every one mothers different me personally I go to my son every time he cries as well especially at a young age I can’t say anything about the whole custody thing because I’ve never been thru nothing like that but DO WHAT YOU THINK IS BEST FOR UR BABY!!! Girl omg I’m so sorry ur going thru that! I hope for the best for u and ur baby

He’s just trying to prevent you from going for custody. Just file. He’ll get time and it’ll be through the court so he can’t keep the baby if he decides to be crazy one day. File for full custody, he’ll counter. You’ll end up with a mediator to come up with a plan together. If you can’t, a judge will become involved.

File he sounds like a abuser. There is nothing wrong with tending to your baby they only know to communicate through crying so ur doing ur best and what's right. He'll stand no ground if u have any proof of threats he's made keep them

You will definitely get custody in my opinion. Start recording when you have convos and screenshotting any abusive texts . Good luck 🩷

Seeing this upsets me! Girllll first off you’re BEAUTIFUL AND YOUR DOING A MAGNIFICENT JOB!!!! Don’t ever let anyone make you feel anything different than what you want to be. He’s obviously unhappy with himself and is taking it out on you. Anddd technically if he calls the cops yall have 50/50 if there is no court order in place they will tell him it’s not kidnapping. I’ve had it happen to me! I suggest come up with some agreement then stay away from each other!

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