Valentine day🙄🙄🙄

So it's was a ok valentines day I cleaned my house fed the kids nd put them. To bed , my partner was smoking in our bed and didn't help with anything but caught an attitude because I was upset cause he wasn't helping me cause I was already tired from cleaning and walking to get my daughter in which he supposed to cause I drop her off and it's hard for me to do a lot I have a heart condition so am I wrong for not feeling like I have to kiss his ass or apologize cause I do everything wen it comes to the house and the kids ? I'm so depressed and I try not to show it in front of my kids,should I talk to him wen he's calm cause he slept on the couch last night?

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A conversation absolutely needs to be had! Heart condition or not, he needs to pull his weight, too. It’s not fair to you or the kids. I can’t imagine having to do EVERYTHING on my own and have any sort of sanity, and I don’t have any major health issues. So I can’t begin to fathom how difficult it is for you with your condition. Hoping that when you talk to him, things will start to get better and easier for you 💕

Thank you Im hoping too it's stressful daily

I go through this every single day and I've been cheated on so many times, because I was to stressed to "give him his desires" and because of the work being put into me indoor/outdoor- grocery runs- shopping being a mother I'm doing it ALL on my own and it is extremely hard. Due to it in the last year he wouldn't allow us to have family time outside of the home so I got depressed and never left the couch it was a small apartment at the time and I had nothing to do but watch and take care of my baby which is such a blessing but to do it alone even though you have a partner to help takes a toll on the body and mind, I have liver and or kidney failure due to the lack of care in the household I as well have a heart condition that if I'm not care full I go into shock and start to faint it seize us women CANT NOT do it alone bit because we can't do it or we don't know how it's because it's to stressful on us and that's why they make so many different opinions and ways nowadays to help

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