Am I just overwhelmed and over hormonal

So when my mom was pregnant with me, she said my powers coursed through her making her intuition stronger than it’s ever been being able to guess how much money my dad spent on a new jacket to the cent. Being able to look through her boyfriend‘s phone full of random girls numbers and pick one then to call and tell him she’s sitting outside of random house she’s never seen before, but she has a gut feeling. He lives there and the number she picked is the girl he’s staying there with She was right about everything. And I’m not a psychic like my mom I’m a seer and a healer, but my intuition lately has been very strong even about things. I don’t fully know just in my mind it says it so I guess and I’m right and I guess another part about is I’ve always had good intuition but I never like listening to it but my hormones have been making it really hard to hold anything back I got upset with my man recently because he was flirting and gaming with this only fans chick talking to her for hours and I had gut feelings about this same girl before so I blocked her but he kept adding her back but I went on his game chat what only confirmed what I thought was happening so when I confronted him he left his headphones on so all his friends could hear me say I don’t want him gaming with her so then I heard them laughing with a girl well he was away from the head set saying you gotta hear the crazy shit that just happened and I just knew in my gut they were talking about us so I got upset at my boyfriend again because if all he dose is complain to his buddies about me and all they hear is negative things about me all they will do is say negative things about me but I was right they were talking about me and I guess my question is am I just being overly hormonal or are my feelings valid because I honestly just don’t want to have to worry about whores and people shit talking our relationship I want to worry about strollers and car seats I want to plan our future but rn it’s looking further and further away because I grew up in a broken home and I’m not going to bring a kid up in one I can’t do this alone and I’ve told him if he’s going to leave me for some slut one day tell me now because I don’t want to do this then and when I got upset about the only fans chick he says maybe we should take a break IM PREGNANT that’s not a option but anyway that’s my meltdown thank you so much if you’ve made it this far love and appreciate you♥️
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girl leave him, don't let him leave you. Coming from someone who's man comes home from work telling me about all his coworkers bashing their wives, fighting constantly. If he doesn't respect your feelings, find someone who will. you ARE NOT being overly hormonal. HE is being disrespectful. How would he react if you were talking to another group of women and one man the way he talks to his buddies?

Legit question, not a judgement. Why are you with someone you can't trust? Why are you holding place in your life for someone who won't hold a place in theirs for you? Kids better off not having a dad from the start than have one who abandons them for someone else later on, or someone who blames them for being trapped in a situation they don't want to be in. Is this a relationship that can be salvaged? Does he respect you enough to try to make things better? Again these are not judgements, but ment to get you to be introspective

Also some more reflections, do you know if you're having a girl or a boy yet? If you have a boy, are you comfortable with his key male role model teaching him to treat the women in his life like he treats you? What are his future relationships going to look like with a father like that? And if you have a girl, do you want her to grow up with your relationship as her idea of what a relationship should look like? Will seeing your relationship teach her that abuse, neglect, cheating, and distrust is what she should expect in life? Role models matter, what is he going to teach your kid as their father?

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