Am I the arsehole?

So I’m booked in for my C- section on 27th June and my partner already had tickets for a gig on 28th after I told him I will be having c section on 27th he was like okay I’ll sell my tickets but I could tell he wasn’t exactly happy about it but then my mum said he should go and she’ll come take care of me whilst he’s out, am I the arsehole for being pissed off about this like why wouldn’t you want to be with your family at such a special time instead of going to a gig??

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Why is your mum even getting involved her opinion can damage yours and your partner’s relationship, he 100% needs to be their not just because it’s a special time but because your gonna need so much support moving around , showering , getting in and out of bed, yes it’s fine for him to be upset but he will have to get over it ,this is when his family needs him x

He needs to get over it, and ultimately probably doesn't realise that if he went to that gig I doubt he would be able to relax and enjoy himself being away from you and baby that early on! 💛 the emotional support you need should be coming from your partner, not your mother xxx

My husband goes to Le Mans (car racing thing) in France in June every year….. as soon as we found out my due date he told his friends he won’t be going as he wants to be there for me, even if baby is late and won’t actually arrive yet. I’d say missing one gig isn’t going to hurt him… 😬 and he definitely needs to be there for you (and should want to be there for his day-old baby!)

Absolutely not the arsehole, you will have given birth A SINGLE DAY prior, he should be there, his priorities should be with you and his new born child, why would he even want to be apart from you both so soon afterwards!! Lovely of your mum to offer, but he is the father, it is his responsibility!😊

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