Not enough after sex

So me and my partner last night had sex. I would say it was good sex and he seemed to enjoy it. However, afterwards I went to sort the baby and he went downstairs to "make a brew". But he m*sturbated instead. Was having sex with me not good enough? It was very obvious that's what he was doing. Don't think he could hear me. What would you do in this situation?

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I would definitely just talk to him about it, it will probably be uncomfortable for both of you but it’s better to have an uncomfortable conversation then letting it stew and your brain coming up with loads of different scenarios/conclusions that may not be correct

You made him horny and he’s still thinking about it. I don’t think it’s bad

My husband often wants to go another round and I don't always want to. Maybe he didn't want to impose on you as he knew you were busy.

After reading this, It’s not the masturbating that raises my eyebrows, bt I think something is lacking, maybe communication. Cuz why can’t u jus talk to him abt all this? Cuz that’s what I wud do; is jus talk to them & communicate exactly is it’s that’s bothering me, very direct & to the point! Cuz was he trying to lie or hide his masturbating, & if so why? Did he say he went to “make a brew” to hide the fact that he was going to go finish himself off? Why don’t u jus ask him?

I'm concerned that he felt he had to lie about this to you?

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