My husband told me he isn’t in love with me anymore

He said he has “love for me” … idk how to take that 😕😕😕
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Feelings during pregnancy and after until you are done breastfeeding and then the first 2 years after are erratic. You can ask him if he wants to stay in a relationship with you and work together towards a common goal or if he'd rather be separate. 🤷‍♀️ it sucks but you'll be okay and you have your baby 💙

He is telling you he’s done. Why would you wanna stay with someone who doesn’t love you. And no marriage counseling… wtf… you don’t want to have a stranger try to convince him to stay with you… you want someone who wants to be with you and will fight for you… this ain’t it

It’s time to put your big girl panties on and love yourself more mama. I wouldn’t recommend marriage counseling because you shouldn’t need a stranger to tell your husband to love you. Move on with what you have before it gets ugly

If my man told me that, I’ll leave ❤️ no therapy or counseling can help w that!

Take that and leave. Heal and keep it moving. His loss.

Ladies it's not as easy to cut and run. Plus remember pregnancy doesn't only effect our emotions and feelings it effects our spouses too. Talk to him and see what he wants to do. Every relationship deserves at least a conversation of discovery. I've been with my husband for 15 years. There have been times I felt I wasn't in love and that I despised him. But we worked through it. There is no one size fits all. Figure out what works best for you. Sit with it for a bit and make sure because your decisions effect more than just you. Good luck with whatever you decide.

Idk if there’s been many times to say this on a serious level but that man needs Jesus. Marriage isn’t a feeling it’s a decision and a hard one and you keep making the same decision every day and some days you might feel different about it but I’m learning more and more lately that letting your feelings dictate your decisions is not a good way to live life

Divorce. Since he has so much love for you tell him to pay up and you move on.

Those are the exact words my dad told my mom when I was 9. She told him to leave after I was 12. She went through so much pain but she raised me the best that she could. But she couldn’t be with him anymore after that. All while he was loving someone else

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