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I’m going through something similar right now🥺It’s really tough! I try to focus on being the best mother to my kids atleast they’ll have a good example of all the things I’m trying to instill in them
Your gonna need to make real changes if y wanna see something different happen. Cant keep doing the same thing and expect different results. Keep trying new ways but set a time frame of how long your willing to wait to see those changes (cuz nobody changes overnight)
That is verbal abuse to you and your sweet little one. You both deserve SO much better. I would leave if you’re able to stay with a family member or friend, or make him move out under the threat of involving a social worker or police into the situation. I know it’s hard, I’ve been through it. But nothing is harder than living with a man like that in you and your baby’s home.
As someone who's been there, even if it gets better because he's on his best behavior for fear of losing you, it rarely gets cured, especially if he's okay doing this already in front of your child. I knew I needed to leave when I felt like I never wanted my girls to think it's okay to be treated like that.
In the process of leaving my bd. He would do this is he was rlly mad and my 4 year old tells him “be quiet dada”. The best thing you can do is leave with ur baby. He’s showing her exactly how women shouldn’t be treated and you don’t want her to be with someone like her father when she’s older
Thanks everyone. Unfortunately it’s hard for me to just up and leave😞 I’m a sahm while he pays all the bills and I live in a different state from my family back home. All our insurance is covered through his work including medical which is most important to me. Recently got cut off of me and my daughter Medicaid because he put us on his work insurance. Trust me I’ve been feeling exactly what you guys are telling me but it’s just hard to leave😐 just today he started saying some thing new to me that he didn’t before and telling me how he’s tired of seeing the house dirty which is not true at all.. does it ever get better ❤️🩹
Kick him out. He needs a time out. He needs anger management. He needs accountability. And you need safety from this verbal & etc. ABUSE. If he won't leave, y'all leave. Establish your boundaries. You don't have to live abused. If you think he would retaliate than its inevitable that his anger would be provoked by something on down the road anyways. Ultimately, you & the kids need to be safe. Seek the best way to arrive to that.