Am I the wrong one?

This sounds so stupid and tiny but im at the point where i dont know if im the problem now or what. So this morning I asked my boyfriend about the show he was watching and every question I asked he answer very snarky for example I asked if the guy died and he just had a tone and went obviously. I then said I wanna watch it and he turned round and said "oh I forgot, becca can't watch stuff by herself". Then as I was trying to get our 1 year old to sleep I asked him to get me a few things like a drink and my ear phones and he goes "becca can't do things for herself" " becca can't get up by herself". I was trying to get our daughter to sleep. When he came back with the juice, he threw it and it was a full 500ml bottle of sports lucozade and I laughed a little but seriously said don't throw it cause it's loud. I asked him to hand it to me properly and then put my hand out behind my head and he expected me to catch it. It made a loud bang, my daughter jumped up and the bottle hit my bowl that had sauce and I had just mopped so I shouted his name. He then asked why I'm shouting and I said cause I told you to hand me it normally. I then asked him if he could please say sorry and he said " why should I say sorry?" I said because he didn't really listen and I didn't want a mess or our daughter waking. He then told me that I laughed the first time he threw it and that I wasn't understanding what he was saying. I just said I am and he said I wasn't. I know for a fact if I didn't laugh he would have told me I'm too serious or j can't take a joke. He's has been like this before it's just got to a point when I feel like I'm going mental and not understanding anything at all. I've started believing I am in the wrong all the time now and feel i cant talk to him about soemthing hes done anymore. I told my sister this and she said to just give him a hug, say sorry and dont demand a sorry from him but i dont want to give him a hug. I didnt demand a sorry, i asked for one. Am I the wrong one?