“They told me not to tell mommy and daddy”
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I agree, I would call a meeting and discuss xx
I would say the rolling of the eyes has been seen also and you’d like to know more x
They must be hard to see for the dad as well. I wouldn’t ask for a meeting next time you go say you want a word and say your peace. If something further comes up I would make it more official x
I would definitely call for a meeting to get to the bottom of it. Hopefully it’s nothing, but whatever it is isn’t acceptable to say it imo. I’d also mention the rolling of eyes, I wouldn’t be happy with that when you’ve trusted someone to look after your toddler
100% follow the nursery safeguarding process. Could be nothing but also could be a safeguarding concern. Not over reacting to raise it at all. Both need noting as incidents. Eye rolling is low level concern but the phrase he has said is higher I’d say. Don’t panic though 99% of time probably nothing. Could have given him an extra biscuit. But they need training to understand that phrase is not ok to use and could put child at risk elsewhere.
I would be asking for a meeting with the manager asap preferably first thing in the morning. Is that all he said or has he said what they don’t want you knowing? X