Fed up with partner

Anyone just hate their partner after having a baby? I’m so sick of him. He constantly complains about everything. Nothing I do is good enough. He thinks because I’m on maternity leave, I should do everything. He doesn’t understand how bloody tiring and exhausting it is. Just had a case that I made some food, he was like oh it tastes awful- did you even marinate it. It’s just constantly bringing me down. I don’t want my daughter to grow up thinking it’s normal to be treated like that. He wants me to cook, clean and look after the baby, which I do but even then it’s not good enough. I genuinely never have a break. But the issue isn’t that, it’s the constantly made to feel like I’m crap.

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Yes, and when I tried to explain I can only do so much he goes “well go work at the factory for a week” or when I was freshly pp made he had to do everything when I was on so many meds from pregnancy complications and called me lazy for not doing anything while I had a 3rd degree read

Personally I think after having a baby, it really highlights all the qualities in your partner good and bad. Like mine, we don’t always get along and we fight but after I had our baby, this man did EVERYTHING for me. 6 months out and he’s still doing 80% of the things. And I have to say, him maning up like that and truly taking care of me, it makes the other things not as serious because I know he has my back. You shouldn’t feel constantly put down by the person who you’re supposed to be a team with. I’d sit down and have a talk with him. If he doesn’t like your food well he’s grown he can cook himself lol focus on you and your child.

And that’s why I’m a single mum now…

I would be booking a girls day out for his next day off work, make sure you let him know you will be back in time for the dinner he lovingly prepares in all his free time lol

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