Co parenting

You don’t, especially if he intentionally goes out his way to inconvenience you or use y’all’s child as a pawn. Coparenting almost never works because of the father, mothers are almost always going to compromise and do what’s best for the kids even if the father makes it difficult.

Legal aid! Get parenting plan on paper and provide this to a lawyer. If the father wants to be a d%ck take him to court.

You don’t put him on child support. Men get the children when they feel like it so child support that’s how you deal with it.

Or parenting plan but majority of the time the men still don’t pick up on their days and your left with the slack.

They always have a million excuses why they can’t pick up on a certain weekend. Welcome to adulthood

It doesn’t matter, once the parenting plan is approved by the court he has to obide!

You need LegalAid for a lawyer to present your parenting plan in the court. The lawyer serves the father through court and he can’t just through all responsibilities on you. It is 50/50 and he has to obide by law once your parenting plan goes to court, that become a legal document that he has to follow. You write down everything you need from the father and you take it to legal aid services and they sit with you and discuss the options but at the end of the day the father has to co parent and follow according the court order.