I just don’t associate with people like that… also it’s really all about your point of view. It may seem stupid to you but in reality it has more to do with trauma and self worth. I would try to encourage them to work on themselves but you can’t force anyone to do anything. If it’s stressing you out wish them the best and create some distance. I say this because I was a “stupid” girl once and then I worked on myself and built up my self esteem, my self worth. Stopped accepting lame ass scrubs and that’s how i met my amazing bf. When I see girls in that position I just think… you poor thing, I hope you heal sooner than later.
To each their own thoe 🤷🏽♀️
I love girls like you honestly because friends need HONEST friends and I’m a honest friend but I also have some sympathy for girls because I have been through a lot and I know if I made it through all that BS anyone can to so makes me sad seeing some girls just accept that life for there selves and for there kids
Finally someone who isn’t afraid to say it!!! It’s so draining having to try and be supportive when they just refuse to listen and stay in that situation 🙃 then they cry and complain about it like um???? I said my piece it’s up to you on what you do