Got the tea 🫖 (GAY TEA)

My only input on this is I personally wouldn't say this is catfishing but plain stupidity on the other guys part. He chose to have virtual sex with a stranger he's never seen in photos, video call or person, based on a character they were playing when everyone has the ability to be whatever character they want... sounds like someone skipped past basic online safety and thankfully at least it was a fully grown man he was interacting with and not something much worse.

That’s wild!! My baby daddy cheated on me by kissing a gay man in a bar when our son was 4 months old. Then proceeded to sleep with a woman that same night. These men ain’t 💩

Wait so how did this guy even know he was your BD if he doesn’t know you and never saw him?..

Wait it's only a video game, I mess about with girls on video games but doesn't mean im a lesbian?????

@Sera Kay ✨ well I use to play vr but strictly to connect virtual djs to virtual events, so I was well known on vr and met him before through that.

@Natalie girl it means you’re just dibble dabbling in some fun! ❤️

@Alex I COULDNT AGREE MORE! I think the only reason he wasn’t suspect is because my baby dad did change his voice for the game… does like really girly things now and has been acting like and saying he’s a femboy. Thankfully it wasn’t a child or something though because you would be SHOCKED by how many people get Doxxed on VrChat for that stuff.

@Ellie UH UH!!! My baby dad has a whole bf now so I def get it 😂

Yeah but it doesn't mean he's gay????

@Natalie he's a femboy he's gay

I’m still confused and my question still remains 🤣😭

So did you blackmail him for the money? I’m with @Sera Kay ✨ still confused about the rest of it

@Taylor a femboy is a male who has feminine features or dresses femininely. He is gay but not a femboy in any way. So the guy he had virtual sex with was sickened because he’s strictly only into men who dress and look feminine. My baby daddy has no feminine features and doesn’t dress femininely. (This is what VrChat thinks a femboy is btw)

@Natalie he’s admitted he’s gay to me a month after we broke up and told me and I quote “I will never date a woman again because you all are needy and annoying as fuck, men are easy to please”

@Sorrel I absolutely didn’t blackmail him in any way, regardless of him being gay that’s never been a problem to me. I simply asked when he was going to pay child support again and he said “in a month” I told him if he’s going to do back pay and he said yes I then told him exactly how much his back pay is and he said he would send me the $1600 after he got his tax return.

@Sera Kay ✨ almost all his friends know I’m his baby mama, we use to play together and my baby dad runs events and I use to get virtual djs to go to those events. So a lot of the people he’s friends with know me and know about our child because he still talks about me to them and about our child. So everyone he’s friends with either knows about me or knows he has a child.

The reason I posted this was because I wanted to vent about the things I saw, the things I heard. Like I said there’s a lot more to it and that same dude who had virtual sex with my baby dad also has clips of him where he’s almost sounding like he’s delusional and mentally unstable. I’m honestly glad this man showed me the clips of him in that state because I was thinking of sending my kid to him to visit but now I’m going to be there when they have a visit because I have no idea if my baby dad is mentally capable of understanding what’s real and fake anymore. He was talking about how he’s going to “take over meta” how he’s “taking over vrchat” how he’s “willing to kill anyone who fucks with him”

My baby dad admitted in clips that he was frequently on Valium now and how it’s my fault because we broke up, but in all actuality this man was homosexual and didn’t even touch me or kiss me anymore, we would fight often and he would break things around the house, smash glass, punch holes in walls. If he was just homosexual and a healthy and mentally stable man I would have no issue with him at all but he’s mentally unwell and I don’t know what he’s capable of anymore.

Hi, dis you ever notice anything about him that made you think if his gay before him admitting it

@Fatos I really didn’t know he was into men, I thought he just stopped loving me. There were odd things that now I realized I should’ve picked up on (Him being flirtatious with his friends, him constantly around the femboy community) but I never questioned it and thought he was just joking around.

@Fatos everyone around me however said he spoke like a gay man which now I noticed and it really cringes me out.

I’m been thinking around this so few years now. Is it ok if you can message me.

@Fatos I just messaged you.