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So I was in my room feeding my baby and when I got free I got up and started walking towards living room , I heard my mil bitching about me to my husband. Because last night I told her to stop giving him cookies before dinner. But she’s not respecting my boundaries instead she was being rude to me to always having boundaries. I overheard my husband saying about me -she’s stupid -in a low tone. I know he said to make her happy and so that’s why he chose her side. I lost my shit and encountered them in living room. Sat in front of her and told her to say it on my face and then there were some arguments and she was playing a victim card and saying how i was rude to her while she was polite. I was not rude here but I told her why she can’t say in front of me. She was enjoying this argument and smiling like she got what she wanted . and my husband didn’t say a single word throughout. He got up to get ready and went outside. Am I wrong in this?

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No you are not. You should have confronted your husband as well. So disrespectful

@CC🍇🥐🍣🧋 I haven’t gotten a chance to confront him yet. I don’t know how he will respond to that 🙁

He should have stood up for you

I'd be more fuming at my partner if he did this than my MIL bitching about me tbh

Not wrong at all. Mil is very wrong.

Your husband is the problem

So happy you confronted her! My MIL has been talking shit about me too but won’t say anything to my face or within ear shot so I have yet to confront her. My hubby is not confrontational so he just changes the subject, wish he would say something to shut her up tho! Hope your hubby can understand where you are coming from.

Your husband is married to you not his mother. He should always have your back. If he doesn't, he doesn't deserve you and you definitely deserve better than this.

well we did talk about this. he’s like he always supports me when he knows the whole story but this time he said he didn’t know anything about it she just came and start talking, and it’s wasn’t even a big issue so he wanted to let it slide so that it doesn’t become into a fight. yes he do confront her some times i admit it. but when he’s not home or is not aware about anything she start bitching to him before i could even tell him anything. sometimes he gets manipulated and sometimes he will talk to me first to clarify. because he knows what kind of person i am and he knows she kinda gets insecure with me. i get it that he doesn’t want to hurt her because when he confronts her ego is destroyed. and he said he doesn’t need any drama just listen and ignore her.

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