@savage I second that
@savage i be trying to be nice but it’s getting overwhelming because im taking care of our son 25/8… why do you keep texting me about ur feelings . Shoot he barely asks about him .
my bd is the same. he’s cheated on me before and during this pregnancy, emotionally abusive, pathological liar, anger issues and a narc. i told him i needed space last Wednesday and to cut contact fully for a bit before the baby is born so i could find peace and heal and he continued to message me all the time and calling me 57 times. laSt i heard from him was for friday and i had to ignore it but it was along the lines of HIM and how he’s so regretful. all a lie girl, and the sooner we as mummys can let them go and make communications JUST about our babies, the better!! your so brave and such a good mommy to your kid it sounds, and it sounds like he doesn’t care at all about the child and just cares about lying.. just like my bd
@petal itll definitely get better . And take that time for yourself before baby comes . You need that for your mental. And I definitely spaced myself from him and all his bs. I just hate that he doesn’t do anything for our child and then just asks how he’s just hurt etc when he has a secret gf already and lying about little shit. And how he can’t do for our son
@petal I messaged xx
If he’s a narcissist he’s hovering back just to get control….. narcissist don’t like it when you end the relationship they believe they own you and you can only leave when they discard you…… he would get frustrated soon and starts threatening you or want to use the baby as bait.
@Sophia use baby as bait how?
Protect your peace
I would tell him to stop and only to contact me when he wants to see the baby or to check on him.