Men suck.

Ladies. You cannot trust men. Even the “good” ones wear a mask. My husband told me about some of the conversations the married/serious relationship guys have with each other. He revealed to me that they mostly talk about women that they meet or sleep with. Just completely disrespecting their partners without any regard. They do not view women as people with feelings. A lot of men just look at women as an object and what we do for them. They don’t respect us. I am just so sick of men. Some of these men mask this part of them so well. My husband is now going through some sort of awakening and doesn’t want to associate himself with these type of men. Says he doesn’t really participate in the convos but didn’t really shut it down either. But at least he’s now realizing. Just wanted to get these thoughts off my chest.

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Wow that’s disgusting but at least he’s being honest and not wanting to have something to do with these men. I just know my bd talks the same way but ‘boys will be boys’ 😑

It’s crazy the amount of cheating I hear about all the time, doesn’t matter how long y’all been together or how many kids y’all have, people are ruthless.

I've given up on finding a new man bc all the guys my age are gross and creepy, I tried going on tinder when my son was 1 month old and all the guys were obsessed with the fact I was breastfeeding 🤢🤢🤢

Yeah my man works as a diesel mechanic and they have posters up of women half naked everywhere on calendars and stuff and talk about women all the time. He gets outcasted because hes not like them.

I trust my husband when it comes to being respectful of women- especially me. He acknowledges the value of women and what we are capable of as humans. Even before we were romantically involved I personally heard him speak- respectfully- to others about their attitudes towards women. I have also personally witnessed him defend women who were complete strangers- again respectfully but firmly. Also, I know he discusses more interesting and sophisticated topics with his circle of friends. I say this because good men deserve to be acknowledged and to maybe give others hope if they haven’t experienced this type of man themselves. Sounds like a positive thing your husband is becoming mindful of his mindset and the company he keeps. People can grow and evolve.

yeah unfortunately it does happen I tell you from experience cause yeah …

@V actually love that for you! 🥰 I however have never met a man that is truly respectful & therefore can see myself being single for a very long time. My focus is on my little ones anyway which is just as well since all the men I've been with have been disappointing sneaky liars 🙃

I have trust issues but when I read this I’m sorry I just thought he’s probably just saying that so you think he’s being good

@ellie thanks! They are out there, there is hope for the human race haha It’s unfortunate that’s your experience. Sounds like you have your priorities straight though and your little ones are blessed to have a mother who knows her worth and holds her boundaries.

Honestly the men who slide into my dms are either married or in relationships and I just think you’re poor wife 😢 I’ve even had so called friends of my ex message me too

It’s disgusting that Some men are like that & think like that but that is not all men. I thank God for the husband that I have! ❤️

@V awwww thank you 🥰

all men will cheat given the opportunity and when. men aren’t emotionally attached like us

@Swai-Anne this!!!!

@Sam this, they follow you.. or glance at you I just ignore them and then their woman holds them close like girl I don’t want him 😂 wth I’m just here to eat/shop.

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