don’t know what to do.
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Just think about how miserable you would be with the two of them. There is no shame in the a word, and it’s better to do that - there is a chance any of them are going to be neglected , so the better option is to not even take that chance. It’s tough being pregnant with a toddler. It’s hard enough having just one kid!! Imagine looking after another… not in this cruel world
@Denisa I don’t think jumping to the word miserable is really the right thing to do in this situation, yes pregnancy with a toddler is tiring I’m almost at the end of my pregnancy now with a toddler so I have first hand experience but I don’t think the way you worded your reply was necessarily the right way
I had two under two yes it was difficult in the beginning but I wouldn't have it any other way. Now they are 4 & 5 and they are best of friends always busy playing together it's so nice 🙂 they won't even sleep apart from each other 😅
If there any way your partner could look into a family friendly chef job?? My partner originally did those lovely long hours coming home for about and hour before the evening shift. He now works 7am - 4pm.
You and your partner need to try to decide what is right for you and your family. Your 7 month old will be around 1 year 4 months at that point do you think that’s something you can cope with having a newborn and an almost 1 1/2 year old? At the end of the day the decision isn’t easy either way with what you decide but you’ve got a bit time to decide. My 2 almost 3 year old goes to nursery 2 and 1/2 days a week and I’m expecting my baby to be born sometime in May so I know them couple days whilst he’s at nursery will help maybe that’s something you could consider?