Stressed :(

I’ve been feeling a bit stressed lately by what I see on social media about what my almost one-year-old “should” be doing. When it comes to food, he still relies on four 8oz feeds a day and isn’t the best eater. I offer him three meals, and while he tries most of it, I don’t feel ready to drop any feeds. But seeing other mums’ meal vlogs, where their babies eat so much, makes me feel like I’m failing. I’ve also tried offering different foods, but it’s hit or miss. He refuses to drink water from a straw cup—he can suck yoghurt from a pouch but won’t even try with water, no matter what I add! As for motor skills, he’s not crawling or walking yet. While I believe he’ll get there in his own time, I can’t help but feel pressured when people seem surprised. I’ve encouraged him to crawl and walk, but he doesn’t seem too interested. I have a follow-up with a health visitor because he didn’t meet his motor milestones, but they’re happy with everything else. Still, I can’t help but stress sometimes. Is anyone else’s almost one-year-old not crawling yet?