Help please

If he's nasty to you, I would first move out while he's not at home and would then tell him via phone call or a meeting in a public area.

@Diana he even does it in shops now, I just walk away, but he does it also when he’s on a phone call but he “mutes” the chat to say something

Sounds like he's now pretty comfortable disrespecting you. You need to stand up for yourself and never allow anyone to be nasty to you and knock your crown off. If you have a daughter and she sees this she will think its normal to be treated that way and accept it. And if you have a son he will be learning how to talk to and treat women. I think you need to be ready to leave him first. Not sure what telling him you don't love him anymore will do if you won't be following it up with leaving.

Do something disrespectful in his face and see if he likes it sometimes u have to show a man u will do something bc they think you won't ..

Why do you need guts if you wanna leave him? Just say I don’t like you and love you anymore and move on

Don’t know the whole context of it but even emotionally and verbally abusive relationships are hard to walk away from. Personally I had enough with my ex partner and I hit rock bottom, my sister helped me figure out at plan, we talked and we executed said plan…one day after he left for work I had my sisters come to the house and picked up a U-Haul and even had other friends come and help me load all my and my children’s belongings in the truck and was gone before he got home from work. Used a storage unit for a while and was able to live with my mom until I got my own apartment. I completely blocked all contact and did not see him until about 5-6 months later when he wanted to meet and I knew I was strong enough to see him and not want to get back with him as many times before. I kept my composure and got the closure I needed and probably answers he needed as to why I did what I did. That was it and shortly after met the most amazing guy I could have ever imagined existed for me. GL!

@Vee my son speaks to me like his dad does and it’s absolutely heartbreaking to hear, my anxiety when it’s nearly time for him to come home is so bad x

@Cheryl I done it before and he practically laughed in my face and said I wouldn’t cope on my own without him

@Brenda my whole family takes his side, we have a group chat and he constantly brings me down and not one person sticks up for me 😞 it’s so annoying because there ment to be my family not his, I have left before but the kids didn’t want to come with me they wanted to stay in there home🙈x

@Tashayla Alexander hey just speaks to me like am nothing a have walked away before and he said he hated been alone

I’d just leave when he’s not home- take the kids regardless & message him saying ‘we’re done, how you are with me is unacceptable and I’m not having it, if you want to see the children (depending on age) - we can arrange via my mum (for example) and block his number Then you need to have a serious chat with your family about how he is with you - if you keep going back he’ll keep treating you this way because he knows you’ll stay :(