Narc Ex

My narc ex has left me pregnant, currently in my 2nd trimester. I’m so angry! His life has barely changed but I’m living at my Dads and emotionally struggling. He flipped my life upside down. He doesn’t see the baby as his responsibility until it’s born. He has a VERY decent job. I’m tempted as his setup is much better than mine, and for him to step up, for him to be the primary carer of our child. He was okay with that one day, then changed his mind the next. I’m sick of him not caring. It hurts so much! I ended up in A&E having a scan as I was bleeding, he said he’d be there and then decided not to show up. I didn’t know until he text me saying my stuff was in the garage to collect and he wasn’t going to come to the hospital.

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Hang on your pregnant to your ex or fell while with him?

@Peanut Shell I’m 17 weeks pregnant. It wasn’t planned but we agreed it was a happy accident.

Where you with him when you got pregnant? Or slept with him as a one off and got pregnant?

Omg I am going throw the same thing as u! But I left him. No word of a lie my ex is the same. He wnt stop blowing my phone up.

I’m sorry you’re going through that! A lot of men do have the mindset that until baby is born they don’t need to be there. And it’s true unfortunately, as it’s more support to us as woman and if you’re not together no more he probably doesn’t want to support you but will support baby when born. It’s a crap situation but focus on yourself and baby you’ll come out stronger on the other side

@Rachel we were together x

@Rachel what difference does this make? So nosey !!

Once a guy shows his true colours they will never change dropping the dead beet focus on you and your kids and don't expect change because you have his kids mist guys are happy being sperm donors and have you chase them fir child support. If he was he same with first kid I wouldn't have become intimate with him alive of a good women doesn't change men like that

@Ellie by no means nosey Ellie. Just trying to get an understanding of the OPs situation. Ie have they been separated and choose to keep the baby and co parent or he’s left the relationship with a baby. Apologies to whatever shitty situation you went through in life to nip at people over nothing 😂. To the OP. Since yous where together your ex is being extremely irresponsible. But no matter that situation that leaves you in don’t ever think you’re not strong enough to change your circumstances and do it alone. Your pregnant with a baby that choose you as mum don’t let anything cloud the judgment that you can fulfil that role. Unfortunately the tables turn a little for fathers where not everyone is built to be a dad. Whatever the outcome you can absolutely give this baby such a good life🤍 x

It will get worse sweetheart… if he doesn’t care now he will not suddenly care when he has a lot more responsibility

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