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Relationship has gone downhill recently and we now live separately since he punched a door and smashed Moses basket over a disagreement when baby was 1month old. I’ve been staying with him on and off the past 7months and in this time he threw a high chair down the stairs towards me, slapped me and slashed my tyres he is also very verbally abusive. He is saying now that he loves and misses me and that we both need to work on our relationship and insists that I return to his house for him to see the baby (which I am refusing) so her hasn’t seem baby for a month. He doesn’t seem overly apologetic-just stated it shouldn’t have happened, he asked how I can help him to prevent it happening and says I’m attacking him and bullying him by repeating that he’s behaviour is unacceptable and telling him that I won’t go to his house because I don’t feel safe. I’ve acknowledged that there’s nothing I would want more than for us to be in a healthy relationship and he seems to think this means I should go running back while we figure it out. Please help me see sense.

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If you don’t feel safe stay away

Choose yourself and your baby, he will never get better and things will never change. He’s abusive, don’t risk traumatising your child for the sake of a relationship a toxic one at that. You both deserve better, a slap will turn in to a punch a punch will then eventually end up with him using weapons. Please stay away x

Thank you both x

Walk away trust me, get a non molestation order and report the abuse please hun

In 2025, we aren’t raising grown men anymore. Sorry, he knew what he was doing.

I am so sorry. You do not deserve that. With him not even taking accountability it will not get better. Being on my own was hard but so much better than an abusive relationship. I need to heal so I can be healthy enough to be in a healthy relationship

@Patricia this is challenging especially navigating motherhood. Hard to understand how the father of your child and person you love can do these things so coldly. Sending you my support x

By all means do not return. He sounds like a narcissist. And takes no accountability for his actions, to him it’s your fault. Ppl like that will never change. Think about yourself and your kids.

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