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It was a very intense time and he never understood that, and no he wasn’t treating me right and I was so proud of myself for standing up for myself. He really is trying and making me feel bad for breaking the family up and breaking him I just don’t know what to do
One way to look at it, if you didn’t have a baby together would you be considering getting back with him?
@Marissa no I wouldn’t , but I don’t want to let little man down
I think we’re all guilty of wanting what’s best for our child/children, but in this situation I think it’s best to think about what you want, every relationship takes work but do you love him and see a future? Or are you just considering reconciliation purely for your son? If it’s the second option you’ll just grow unhappy as time goes on! He has a mum and dad that love him and want to be involved in his life that’s the important part, not whether your together or not Hope your okay x
A unhappy home isn’t best for a child. If you strongly feel you did the right thing then stick to it. Work on being able to be friends or at the very least co parent effectively. Children will always make you do the right move cos no one has time to raise a child and deal with crap too.
@Rachel I do love him still that’s what’s making it hard but most of it is because we have a child together. He certainly does, thank you xx
It depends on the circumstances, if you had to kick him out and end things I can only assume he wasn’t treating you or baby right? A week postpartum is a very intense time for everyone involved but especially you. If you are looking at the situation now feeling like you could work on it then that could be because your hormones and emotions have cooled down. If you know he’s no good for you then you shouldn’t go back as it could end up being more traumatic for all