Partner didn’t have sex with me - weird?
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When you said, ‘not often’ just ‘twice a week’🤣 girlll I wouldn’t immediately jump to any conclusions and assume something bad here, unless there were other things happening that are making you question his behaviour.
Sounds like he had an act of impulse but in a good way to surprise you. I wouldn’t think too much maybe compliment him and see how he reacts
Mine does that. He says he “craves” me but doesn’t necessarily want the sex. He wants to taste me and make me cum and that’s good enough for him in that moment. (He’ll send me a random text saying those things) Like the way some girls “crave” giving head to satisfy their man? And not want the sex at that time, not in the mood, not the right timing, maybe later. Oral doesn’t always lead to sex here, but always leads to that person finishing at least. We only finish it w sex if it’s at night everything’s done the kids are asleep etc and we have time. Otherwise it’s oral or sometimes quickie (but he knows I don’t cum during quickie)
My partner did this before and it was absolutely frustrating and I was actually so annoyed! Like why sit there and do that and then walk away? Like you made me feel like a bloody object for you to play with and then walk away when you're done with it! 🤮
You’re a lucky girl. I have a higher sex drive than my partner. Don’t worry yourself. Twice a week is plenty. But, we are all different. Tell him your needs
@Lola when I read “ not often “ just twice a week i did also think girrllll 😂😂 me and my partner are usually every 2/3 weeks 🫠 we tireedddd 🫣
Maybe he realized he didn't get a boner and was embarrassed?
This is really something you need to ask him. I don't understand why you didn't just ask him there and then why he didn't want to have sex and why he didn't have a boner he's your partner
Have you actually ASKED him? As this seems the most logical thing to do does it not?
Calm down and speak to your partner! Also, twice a week is loads as a parent of young kids. We're tirrrrred 🙈
Oral sex is having sex!
@Kellie mine is the same sometimes. Another one of his reasons is he knows it gets me fantasizing about what's to come and he can keep me excited and teased for longer stretches
Hi everyone! 😆 I thought twice a week was low compared to others haha. To be honest, it’s twice a week MAX, lately it’s been only once a week/longer. You were right, I needed to calm down and just ask him. I asked and he told me that he ‘wasn’t feeling it’ and then told me it’s mainly due to sleep and because he’s tired (he works a lot) so if he doesn’t get good sleep it’s not on his mind/not feeling it and as he’s very busy. He reassured me it’s not because of me, but that he WAS feeling in the mood to go down on me. He asked if I liked that without the sex and I told him I prefer to actually have sex with him (that can include foreplay) rather than him just going down on me etc. I think I’m always quick to feel embarrassed or insecure that he’s not attracted to me etc which is what happened here
He may have just been wanting to do something nice for you - does he know that you'd like sex more often than you're getting it? I think you should have an open and honest discussion about it. He could be embarrassed if he's having trouble getting or staying aroused - lots of factors could be at play, but you won't know unless you talk to him about it.