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I think the poster ment with the same person , as in if her partner cheated once do we think they would again . Unless I read it wrong
Yes and no. I believe it within one relationship, if someone will cheat on them once they'll do it again, including if you're the person they cheated with and the "chosen" relationship. (Not my experience but I've come across it heaps, if he'll cheat with you he'll cheat on you) BUT I think with some time to self reflect, grow and be with someone new that they can potentially
I think people can change if they want to and put in the work. But most the time they do not want to
Disagree as my husband when we started dating did cheat on me - once that I know of and once allegedly. I broke it off and we got back together months later. He was a changed man after that and the most loyal person I know now. We’re married and happily trust each other ♥️
Yes in that relationship, no in future relationships
I know people can change. And I would love to say no to this. But every cheater I know continued to cheat 🫤
I believe people can change. However there’s no taking back the hurt they’ve done. That’s one of those things that breaks the covenant between the two of you. It’s a wound in the relationship, some people try to patch things up, but it still leaves a scar. So I think the term once a cheater always a cheater applies here and reigns true.
I said no but only if they cheated in a past relationship, if the had a relationship with someone else or had sex with someone else while they were with you I do think you should end it.
I don't think so. People do change. But no one should ever stay with someone they cheated on/was cheated on by. I cheated once when I was like 23 because the guy was secretly gambling my money away and treated me shitty. It wasn't the right thing to do. And I've never cheated since, even when who I dated cheated on me/treated me poorly. I decided to never stoop that low again. Now I'm 33 and married and you could torture me, skin me alive, offer me a billion dollars; I'd never betray my husband. Even if he hurt me.
It's curious that you add that you wouldn't cheat "only because (you) don't want to". You'd still consider it/do it if that desire changed?
@Diāna I wouldn’t cheat on my current partner because my feelings are different with him than the last guy I was with in highschool, we were both immature and he was inexperienced and I knew he wanted to fuck around so I did me🤷♀️my relationship I’m in now I’m a lot more mature I’m with a mature man, we are like two peas in a pod. I didn’t add much context sorry
I don’t and here’s why, I believe in change, I believe men and women can change but only if they want to, I used to be a cheater, I would cheat on my first boyfriend, I was 16-17. The man I’m with now I would never cheat on, only because I don’t want to. We get along great and he understands me fully. I’ve also been cheated on and I think that it comes with a lot of regret. I think that anyone can change when given a second chance.