Does any other married person here feel like they’re in a love/ hate relationship with their husband 🫣

Our relationship is healthy, we don’t have explosive blowups/ physical or verbal abuse etc but I swear I just feel like he lacks so much common sense sometimes and I don’t know how I’m going to make it another 10 years. Other times I feel like I can’t live without him. Ofc I keep the bad feelings in because they’re fleeting and rather mean lol but I need to know how common this is in a long term marriage