Help. I have RBF mixed with being shy/People pleaser.
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@Allexys they’re saying things like “I want to punch her in the face did you she was looking at her” and then we have to say behind a lot or sometimes I’ll accidentally say sorry and they’re mocking it like in my voice “oh sorry behind” and then I’ll say oh ok a lot on accident I’m trying to correct it and hear “oh ok” and they all started laughing I looked over and they got quiet. I’m extremely sensitive person and I can’t just quit my job. What can I do? This happens every job people don’t like me.
I just don’t feel like I love myself at this moment & I struggle with my mental health off & on so sometimes I don’t know if I’m making it worst. I’m really struggling :/
Oh & another thing is I look like I speak Spanish but I don’t do people kept speaking to me in Spanish or asking and I’ll say no well now I can hear everyone in the corner saying “I don’t speak Spanish” and laughing
Im so sorry. They sound childish. Ignore it best you can and give it time for you to settle in to the group (sounds very cliquey though). Is there anyone not getting involved in the gossip? Maybe strike up a conversation with them to see if they’re any nicer/friendlier. Some people are just mean and have to much time on their hands. It is a reflection on themselves behaving like that. They’re probably gossiping about their ‘friends’ when they are not like that. It is a shame that behaviour wasn’t left in school! Keep doing your job and that’ll prove itself in the end. Least it it’ll to the people who matter. Some people you can never please so don’t overwork yourself or stress yourself trying. Hope it improves for you soon x
Yes they all known eachother for awhile and I can hear them gossiping or making faces and laughing. I’m trying to ignore it. But I tried your approach of trying to talk to them and they seem friendly it’s just really eating away more at my confidence
What are they saying?!