Missing SEX!
8 years in marriage, first few years were extremely good, lots of sex 😜 but after baby, he is focusing more on work. Not giving much attention to me. No sex for 2/3 months 😢
My mind always revolves around sex when we are alone at home, but he stays on call with his office work. Looks like he is never thinking about sex and not caring about my physical needs. All the time with office work.
I was the one who always initiate for the sex, and sometimes he refuse, & that really hurts my feelings. So I stopped making first move for the sex (which indirectly is my losses) and making myself satisfy, but I miss those physical touch and all.
What’s your POV on my condition and any ideas/tips and guidance?
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@Marissa I don’t know how to start it and what to say, as we don’t have that culture.
That's fair.
Sex is so important for a relationship so even if it's awkward you have to have a talk with him. Maybe even just ask him to have a date with you since he is so busy with work and let him know you just want some quality intimate time with him and see what happens.
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At the risk of sounding obvious; have you tried talking to him? This was me and my husband but we finally talked about it and now I'm almost 6 weeks pp and he's itching for touches.