just asked my two best friends if they wanted to meet up on the weekend - nope. they’re just seeing each other instead. 🥲🥲🥲
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@Jennifer it just makes no sense!! we’re all literally inseparable🥲 i feel so hurt lol x
@Jennifer DEFINITELY!
@Amy i wonder why it is - we’re still the same person! if any of them were pregnant i’d actually want to see them more lol🥲
@lauren🧚♀️ I know right! I use to love going out before I got pregnant, particularly with one girl. She literally stopped talking to me because I couldn’t go out and drink anymore. Of course I could still go out but I guess I was less fun because I wasn’t able to drink 🫠 x
@lauren🧚♀️ I would too. Do they at least bother to check up on you during your pregnancy? And is this your first x
@Amy im only talking from experience. I lost a lot of so called ‘friends’ when I became pregnant. It’s the sad reality
Did they explain that they need to meet up just the two for some reason? There could be a reason. But if not. And they prefer each other over you then they are not such good friends anymore. 💛
@Eva one of them just replied “seeing L after work xx” L is the other friend but we’re so close & they’ve been really supportive so i’m just so confused :( x
@Jennifer one of them did about a week ago! they asked if i was okay because i’d been a bit quiet in the group chat - yeah it’s my first pregnancy x
@lauren🧚♀️ ngl, i would slightly distance myself a little and see if they notice, if not then that’s your answer girl x
@lauren🧚♀️ Just get busy, and eventually, you'll find out what's happening.
i feel this! maybe they feel like it’s an inconvenience for you but dw girl - you can make new friends with us! we are down to hang!!🥰🥳
No there clearly not your friend hun! I was once friends with two girls and they said 3 is a croud 🤷♀️ so I havnt seen them since that day about 3years ago x
Girl I’d be hurt to cause wtf 😭 wish I could be there for you !
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I’d def tell them you feel left out and wonder why your not invited ?
Maybe they planning a surprise for you?
I felt so alone during the holidays - sick and tired while all my friends celebrated together. All because I couldn't drink 🙄 It's crazy how their priorities have always been drinking with "friends" but not the actual friendship. The good news is I'm in my 2nd trimester and my priorities have become getting ready for my baby. I hope once we have our babies, it's easier to make friends with other moms who want to spend time with us 🥰
This is proper shitty, I'd be fuming! Honestly, I'd probably ditch them both after this stunt, there really is no excuse for that!
@Stacey they aren’t - they’d have told my partner to make sure i’m free & they’ve said nothing to him🥲
@Rebecca yeah i’m really shocked tbh. it’s the fact the reply was that they’re seeing EACH OTHER when i asked if they wanted to meet up. they could have just included me in whatever they were already doing but they’ve literally just basically told me to piss off hahaha
Are they really your bestfriends then? Trust me girl, when your pregnant you realise who your real friends truly are x