Havent been intimate since we found out!

Last year I had an abortion which really affected our relationship. We stayed together I ended up getting pregnant again 3 months ago and he’s saying he doesn’t wanna keep it. I do though, and now we haven’t been intimate since we found out only cuddling but no sex. It seems very weird to me idk how to take it. He says he feels like I’m using his sperm without permission idk. Has anyone dealt with this before?
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wtf? using his sperm without his permission?? did he unwillingly have sex with you? 🤔

He’s not a sperm donor, it takes 2 to tango. I mean. If there was still unprotected sex, or ya didn’t poke a hole in the condom, lie and stop taking your birth control or something. I don’t see how it could be without his permission…

@Sarah nope he just accidentally didn’t pull out 😭

"accidentally" ok buddy 😑 how freaking annoying. don't let him pressure you into anything that YOU don't want to do. i hope he comes around, and if he doesn't, then i hope you're able to move on easily.

So that’s knowingly unprotected sex, and if he wants to take that route. I’d tell him his pull out game sucks& his permission is irrelevant to what you do with your body when/after he has an “accident”

I can’t relate to this, but hearing similar things before, it’s tricky because your entitled to keep it but he’s expressed his feelings, he got himself into this mess, but I wouldn’t be surprised if the relationship ends because of this. 😢

Using his sperm without PERMISSION?! What the entire F****. I swear these men really think they are carrying the royal blood line in their nuts. He was there not once but TWICE. It’s not like you used a turkey baster or anything of the sort. The audacity of this one is too high.

@Chloe yeah I think it’s pretty much over atp😬

Definitely sad but if you think you can do it alone then go for it. No matter how much it’s his responsibility too sadly men can detach and walk away and nothing you do or say will stop him 😩 do what’s best for you x

Girl I'd pack up and leave. Never talk or see him again. He don't want kids? Fine you can have it by yourself. Lol there, now he'll be a true sperm donor. 🤣🤣🤭

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