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Yes or no so my bf works all day for the most part (doesn’t have a set time on when he gets off) so I don’t see him after work he goes to the gym so by the time he gets off work goes to the gym spends some time on the game it’s already 8/9 pm so ofc the kids our baths n bed since bedtime is 8 pm (there 2 n 10 months ) I haven’t spoke to him all day (he normally messages me through out the day ) well not today then he finally call me just to say I’m going to the gym just wanted to let u know doesn’t say bye I love u nothing he says we don’t need to be together 24/7 we need space from each other WE LITERALLY SEE EACH OTHER Saturday (if he don’t go out n bedtime ) would I be wrong for given him all his space n not bothering him at all ill cook and ofc for him to but I won’t serve him I won’t do all the things I do for him (I do everything around the house shopping etc ) he doesn’t even spend much time with the kids n he don’t even realize it he looks at everything I do as “easier “ the driving all day this is just todays message regarding space

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I dealt with this.. all I see is red flags so leave!!! Because..🤐🤫 either which way take the red flags as the answer.

Just give him his space and let him see how much you really do for him . Not even cooking for him NOTHING . He’ll notice it when you stop

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Ah these entitled men! He can go to the gym on many occasions, while you do everything but where is the time you need for yourself? It's true, you don't need to see each other 24/7 but if he's going to the gym, then he should look after the kids while you do something for yourself otherwise it's not fair. And I don't think you should cook for him, or wash his clothes (if you're doing that) or do anything for him. He clearly wants to be a single "dad" but without the responsibility and all of the benefits. Absolutely no way. Maybe plan nice things out of the house to do with the kids, like fun mum and baby groups, but don't tell him. Let him wonder what you're up to and let him wonder where his dinner is and if he asks then there's the pan, the food and the cooker for him to cook it himself

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