Father of my children just walked out.

I feel really sad, currently looking after 3 children by myself. I have twins that are only 3 months old. This isn’t what I thought life would be. I don’t know what I do from now. He changed after I gave birth, became very angry and took a lot out on me when I tried to do everything right. Said he needs to leave and sort himself out, but doesn’t seem to think about the kids or seeing them. Just left me with everything. I have no friends and I only have my mum. Feeling really empty.
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That sounds awful I’m so sorry. Are there any free classes near you that you could attend to meet some new people?

Not really :( I’ve tried on here but haven’t had much luck. Unsure if I give him more chances or not because usually he comes back. My family thinks he’s done it too much

What area do you live in?

Wiltshire Chippenham

But far to travel. But I don't mind talking if you ever need someone. I don't have many friends of my own and don't live near family so I find myself doing things alone even my partner isn't hear throughout the day. Or even he is away for work. I have two babies.

I'm near rutland water atm. Although I do move every few years so I could live closer later.

Might be worth approaching the Health Visitor. They are great at signposting to groups that might be able to offer support. Some which may not be advertised publicly. Might be a way in to finding friendships.

Do you drive? I’m starting a free walking group in West Lavington Wiltshire every Friday. (Only about 25 mins away from Chippenham.)

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