Anyone feel like they’ll never find friends? Lol
I’ve been on this app for a little bit now and I feel like every person I’ve come in contact with or “matched” with is just like not my kind of person or just not interested in making friends.
I try really hard when I meet someone new to ask questions about them or ask them how they’re motherhood journey is going. Sometimes if I’m having an unimaginative day, I’ll even go on their profile and ask them about something on there to start or keep a conversation going.
I wanna get to know these people and have genuine connections and build a community/village for myself and kids but most of these people don’t even ask questions about me. I carry the entire conversation. And when I get tired of trying to make conversation by myself, I just let the conversation die. Wash and repeat.
Am I the problem? Am I reading too much into this? Is anyone else struggling like this?
I get we’re mom’s and busy and going through life. I don’t even care if people take a couple of days or weeks to answer sometimes I do too. It’s just the entire lack of interest in the conversation that makes me feel like maybe I suck? 😂😭
I sound like one of those annoying guys on dating sites and that makes me feel even worse 🤣🤣
That was me couple years ago on this app. I was naïve enough to invest too much time in maintaining conversations with people here until I realised that many people do not know how to have a convo/or not interested. So, after 2-3 messages I can tell if this chat will die or no and I no longer bother, saved me a lot of time 😄 I did find a few moments friends here though and we keep in touch in real life. Those are my people now 🤗