Sex life boring

My husband is so vanilla. There's nothing wrong with that but I'm starting to not feel satisfied. I've tried lots over the years to spice it up but we are where we are and I am so bored and my needs just are not being met. An open relationship is not an option but I can't stop fantasising about being with a woman and the idea of the rest of my sexual life being stifled is really sh*t What would you do?

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Talk to him?

Pop on down to Ann Summers and treat yourself to some toys 😆

Have you talked to him about being with a woman? He may have an interest in watching that maybe? Or a threesome?

I would say that if you’re actually thinking about cheating on him just leave before you do. But honestly, I wouldn’t leave a whole marriage just because the sex gets boring.

communicate how you feel with him

share your fantasies and desires with him and encourage him to speak to you about his. sometimes life gets in the way and you need to relight the fire 🔥

The truth shall set you freeeeeeee

Have you talked to him? Tried to take control in the bedroom? You may be surprised and he might like it

Have you told him that you’re bored? Or is there a reason you haven’t told him that you’re bored? And specifically used the word “bored”. If my partner was feeling like this and not communicating it to me, I would be really really upset.

@Stacey 🇵🇸 agreed. If you really want to cheat on your partner, just leave. Cheating makes you a massive piece of shit

Everyone has different priorities. If your sex life ranks high, I would find ways to make it work with my busband before leaving. How was sex before you got married? My guess is you knew he was like this. Did you ever find it fulfilling? Or is it recently that he is... vanilla?

What about talking to him about going to a strip club? It could spice things up for him too.

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