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Definitely go see a counselor and maybe seek couples counseling. Having a baby is complicated at any age. Hope this helps.
Either he will make the decision to step up or he won’t and thats the unfortunate part. If you think having this baby is the right decision, then stick with it, but do not hold onto your relationship just because you want the sense of affection or to have a stable relationship for your child. If dad doesn’t want to be involved, let him go. Keeping him around for these reasons will just create a blockage in the relationship and that won’t be healthy to you. Keep your head up, and congratulations mama.
Hey girly٫ I'm sorry your boyfriend is acting this way. There are many reasons why he may be acting like this but ultimately this is your baby. If he truly wants to back out٫ while it hurts٫ is something you have to prepare for. My boyfriend still doesn't always show that he wants to do this٫ men get scared and do irrational things. Maybe over time he will love this baby as it grows inside of you. Don’t lose hope!
I agree with others, if you want this baby, keep the baby no matter what he says🩷 however his comment is confusing to me.. how does he plan to “be there for the kid” while planning on having no feelings towards the baby..? How does he plan to be with you, and have no feelings towards the baby? It would be helpful to get clarity on that I think. And if you want to stay with him, I def recommend seeing a couples counselor to help guide
Hey Mama, it will probably be a toll on you emotionally just because you’ll love the support from your partner. He will eventually step up and be the father he needs to or it can create blockage because you’ll always choose your baby. Congratulations to you with your bundle of joy! I hope everything works out