I don’t know what to do

Hello so I don’t know if I’m in the wrong for this or my man but we use to have sex a lot and there would be no complaints but for a while now I’ve been I guess pushing it off my sex drive is not as high anymore, well my boyfriend texted me while at work a vid on insta talking about how girls keep the stomach full and nuts empty he then when on to say I’m lucky if u even give me head and it’s crazy my girl don’t love me enough to give me head,take in mind it’s never rlly been my thing to give head and we have sex once a week or every other week . He said I’m lucky he is still loyal other guys would cheat. It makes me feel bad and confused because is it bad of me not to all the time anymore .

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I would literally be like "if you're considering cheating because I don't 'keep your nuts empty' then we don't need to be together, it shouldn't be hard to stay faithful" and then I'd pack his shit up for him. at the VERY least, I wouldn't be having sex with him for a LONG time.

😯 I would be shook like that makes me assume he’s doing everything but, and then making you feel bad saying you’re lucky he won’t is a turning point in my mind for how I would feel about him

@Sarah I live with him and his parents at the moment and I told him the way he acts like that be making me not want to at all

@Heidi that part

He saw a video and decided it spoke to him. What he should have done is keep it to himself and if he really feels that way have a healthy conversation with you about your sex life and what his desires are, while also caring about yours and what you can both do to meet in the middle. He can feel however he wants, it's how he expresses it that matters. Most guys are pretty stupid and selfish when it comes to their "needs" 😆 I would find a video that shows how men are selfish or what needs they don't meet for their women and send that in response!

@Jen yesss!

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