Who is (more) in the wrong?

My answer is both but man is more at fault

Both are equally wrong, husband broke his vows, the women’s grimy for doing that knowing he has a family, I could neverr that’s just wrong and gross behavior

I'd say the woman because we always want an honest and committed man. But how can this be possible if another one of us knowingly goes for a married man? Married men may look, okay, but who would they cheat with if us women avoids them.

A woman has no loyalty to another woman unless a friend or relative. That’s on the man.

I absolutely cant stand when people say the woman hasn’t done anything wrong.. if she knows she has… thats disgusting behaviour. The man should have loyalty towards his wife but the woman should have a bit of self respect and morals.

It takes two to tango! If she knows he’s married, they’re both equally in the wrong.

I get that but she’s a stranger to you, why bother worrying about her self respect. Just to clarify I am not in anyway saying it’s ok I just mean if my husband cheated on me with another woman I certainly wouldn’t be chasing her down she ain’t my partner 🤷🏻‍♀️

100% the man. I don't care if the woman knows or doesn't know, it's probably the least important part. The only time I would care about the other woman was if it was a friend or family member. He made the commitment and if it wasn't her, it would just be with someone else.

Both are clearly wrong. But the man took and broke the wedding vows surely. However, still clearly both are grossly wrong.

I mean, they both suck. But ultimately, the married man is the one who made vows. The woman he cheated with doesn't owe the wife anything but...she's not a good person 🙄!

The man, the other woman owes you no loyalty whereas he did.

Equally wrong is INSANE to me 💀 that 40% of people think that? like yeah it’s wrong to knowingly have sex with a married person but the married one literally made vows and promised to be faithful, “the other woman” if single doesn’t owe her loyalty to anyone

I say the man all the way a woman has no ties to me even if she knows that only makes her a disgusting person with no morals but it’s not her fault the man strayed everyone has willpower and most have a conscience so if someone’s man cheats that’s on him now if she’s a friend then that’s different

Man is more at fault. He is the one breaking his vows and cheating.

The one that is supposed to have loyalty towards you… the man.

Man 100% although the woman is gross and immoral. The man is not only that but breaking vows he made.

It’s always the person who is in a relationship! Why a stranger should care if the one who should doesn’t? ( different if the woman is a friend ob )

Id say both but not equal as id like to believe most women stick to the girls code of not hurting or destroying another woman, for a man! sisters before misters But the man is more at fault because he has the responsibility and duty of being loyal to you not the women.

Both but the man is more guilty. Edited because I read the comments lol this idea that “the woman doesn’t owe you anything” mentality is so individualistic and does nothing for society as a whole. If we all live our lives with the concept that I don’t owe anyone anything if there’s not vows involved, as if vows aren’t just words, people just continue to be shitty towards each other. Technically no one owes anyone anything but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t strive to be a decent person and care for the wellbeing of our fellow human.

I think while both are obviously wrong the man is the traitor here, from what i’ve seen the woman has often fooled herself/been fooled into believing that he and his wife’s marriage is ending and she has a chance of a future with him whereas he knows perfectly well that is not the case. Poor decision making from her and of course utterly selfish and wrong but he? He is cruel, deceitful and deserves to be alone!

If we're talking about blame, the blame would be 100% on the spouse. If we're talking about who is worse morally, I'd say pretty equal imo

Did anyone see the post last night about how some women prey on men that are married or in a relationship?

The married man. The woman owes you nothing.

it’s both but the man has a higher obligation because he made vows. if you say the woman is scott free then keep the same energy if that happens to you that’s just excusing the behavior

#1) If she didn’t know, she’s not at fault. #2 It’s always, always going to be his fault that he chose another female over his woman regardless/he chose a female over his family and disrespected his kids. 3) If she knew, she’s just as wrong as he is. Especially knowing she will disrespect the kids involved. Because a woman without kids can easily walk out but it’s worse when there are kids involved. 4)…… There was no 4. I have to comment that she has no self respect if she knew. Also, to answer “who is (more) in the wrong” it depends on the context and I gave ALL answers because I don’t know the context AND depends on the situation. So depends on who and what it’s going to be one of the three. -Plus if she is pregnant and you were unable to get “proof”.. you can use her pregnancy as proof that your ex cheated and sue him or them both. There will be proof regardless it comes to light one way or another. It always takes two!

Man, absolutely. He took the vows and made the commitment. Now she sucks too but the man (or cheater in general) is absolutely more wrong.

@Marie I’m curious to know how that’s excusing the behavior if my man cheats on me I’m leaving that’s it ain’t no apologies as for the women I could give two shits idk her and I’m not fighting with a woman over any man it’s not up to me to correct her lack of morals Its his fault he ruined the family therefore I’m packing up my babies and leaving matter of fact I ain’t going nowhere he’s getting out period ijs

its the man’s fault for the betrayal but the people saying “the woman owes you nothing” is sad bc yeah she may be a random who technically “owes” you nothing but it would be nice to think that the majority of women have each other’s backs, human decency and aren’t pieces of shit

@jaxx I understand still makes her shitty

@Marie oh it absolutely makes her shitty i don’t get women who would even except being the mistress the side piece or whatever they go by I guess I just don’t care enough about a stranger to say it’s their fault no one can make a man cheat he either has it in him or he doesn’t and if he does that’s completely on him

@jaxx true

The man is the one breaching a legally binding contract willingly so I fully blame him the woman could stop seeing him once she knows he's married and if she doesn't she's wrong but he knew he was married and knew full well

The man needed to turn the temptation away and shut that down before it got too far. I get hit on weekly as a married woman and some men even say “and? So?” When I tell them I’m married. Is it their fault that they’re attracted and to keep pursuing? Knowingly? Yeah of course. But it’ll be also my fault if I didn’t shut that shit down and tell them not only am I married but I’m NOT INTERESTED in taking anything further if you wanna be platonic friends we can be friends but if you trying anything, you’re out.

I think both are wrong but the man more so because he's cheated on his wife, but the woman is not innocent as she knew there was a wife and carried on

Both are disgusting the man for actually hurting someone like that and breaking her trust an the women coz why are you being trampy and touching a married man knowing the pain the women will go through when the wife finds out

Both equally wrong but more so the man. It would’ve never happened if he put a stop to it. I’ll say, a side chick got HIV from the Husband and the wife knew cause both got HIV. She was bragging she had him before she found out. Karma always bites back.