I need someone whose been in this situation to help me. Anyone ever been unfaithful? Or just thought to do so…?

Write down the issues you’re having in your relationship & address them. This is my only advice.

Maybe couples therapy or just therapy in general?

Do you want to stay with the person you’re with? If you do you should never make a decision to do something that will destroy that relationship.

Once a cheater always a cheater

What’s making you want to be unfaithful? Are you bored with the relationship? Are you not receiving the attention you think you deserve? Are you just missing that single life seeing if you still got it? Did your partner cheat on you?

Address the issues you are having in that relationship with your partner..look for solutions..DO NOT CHEAT!

@Bounette yes

@Elizabeth valid point

@Dasia sex. No. His drive is very low we only have it maybe once a week. We talked about later down the line to have a potential threesome and adding a third woman but I honestly don’t want to tell him how I feel. I don’t mind adding a third later on but I don’t think he’ll be able to fully satisfy us both. I figured if I find a fb now, it’s ok because he’ll be gaining another woman anyways. But I know it’s wrong I’m just tired of feeling “in the mood” all the time. He would never be ok with me doing this if I asked.

@Princes i tried. Tired to break it off in the beginning because of it but he wouldn’t let me. Then I bought it up months ago again and we started doing date nights, but he’s just not the typical horn dog man I thought thought men were. In the beginning he said most 1-2 times a week is enough for him but I thought he was just saying that but he really meant it. But it’s not like weekly we finally had it last night but we went two weeks without it. Ohh and now he’s on weight loss medication which literally kills any sex drive he had 😓; that was the side effect of it

I understand it’s definitely hard when your partner doesn’t have the same sex drive as you. I feel that’s a valid reason to end the relationship this is a tough one if he treats you great does everything a man is supposed to do maybe try taking charge have a drink let him loosen up & try then

Just read your other comment if you’ve already tried breaking it off & he doesn’t wanna go I feel you have all rights to do what you feel just be honest