Having another baby

Need honest advice, positive or negative. Short story is I want a family member specifically to be able to see my children before they pass if they were to pass in the next few years I am thinking of trying again once my son is 1 , but I keep hearing negative opinions about having another baby way too soon and not waiting the 18+ months. My plan and my husband's is to have three kids and that's it. And my son is my first one.
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Sis do what you want if u think about it wen ppl want a family they don’t even wait for full 18+ months hell I have a 11 month old and I’m currently 18weeks with also a almost 4 year old do what makes u happy if your healthy and no complications I don’t see the problem plus there not taking care of baby you are!

In the same boat girl! Honestly it’s your choice but also you know your body. I’m sure if there’s things to take into count having another before 18 months can raise risks but I understand wanting another already 😭

I’m due with my third June 4th! We’re intentionally having ours close together and haven’t had any issues whatsoever.

My girls are 20 months apart. We definitely have our hands full, but seeing them grow up together and be so close makes it all worth it! It takes a strong support system but I find it worth it. The hardest transition was my toddler getting used to sharing my attention with the baby. Also good to check with your doctor first if you are worried about back to back pregnancies.

My oldest turned one 15 days after my second was born lol. I’ll be honest with my experience, having them so close together was really hard for me physically. Having to care for my oldest while being pregnant was exhausting, especially for me since I had a few complications. But having them two is the most beautiful experience. My oldest is obsessed with the baby and gives him kisses all the time. It was absolutely the hardest thing I’ve ever done physically but now that he’s here I would do it all over again

I got pregnant with my daughter when my son was 15 or 16 months. It's hard but honestly so sweet to see them as best friends

Feel what is right to you. I personally will not be having anymore , my boyfriend & I did a ton of research on having a baby. Starts even before you are pregnant how healthy you are before during and PP. it’s a TON of work & from what I’ve seen people who have multiple kids grow up with lots of mental issues due to not having parents be present & just popping them out. I’m thinking what kind of adult he will be because the first three years are extremely important. I’m able not work & take him to classes, travel and do whatever we want.

I got pregnant with my second when my first daughter was 8 months,now she’s soon making one and I’m already trying for a 3rd one .Do what makes you feel good.

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