Why are playgroup mums so judgemental and rude

Yesterday I took both my kids to a play group we always go to and my son was having a bit of a meltdown not a bad one he’s got autism so he does struggle with his emotions anyways a women sitting there looks at us and turns to another women and said “ bet he’s naughty at home glad he’s not my child” I was fuming 😡not to mention my child is nearly 4 so did hear and under stood what she said
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What a fucking bitch (sorry for my language) some women just think they have the perfect little kid, don't get me wrong I have a 3.5 year old too and she's really well behaved but I'd never say something like that about another child!! If anything, I'd want to help the mum. Bitches be bitches!!

Well shame on her, just shows how she is as a mother and you should have said ‘well I’m glad your not his mum’ because it’s rude to comment on other people’s children. I would never comment on another mother’s kid, I wouldn’t even offer my advice to another mum unless she asked. let it go over you and your sons head, next time someone makes another comment like that, put them in their place x

That’s disgusting especially from another mum. I hope you are okay. Ignore comments like that she sounds like a horrible person x

I have a 3 year old son turning 4 in June who’s on the waitlist for autism and can relate to that. Meltdowns in public or on buses, thankfully I find you still have people in the world who want to help rather than judge and I hope you’re able to shift your focus on people like that and ignore the unnecessary judgement. Easier said than done I know but one thought process that helps me is to think of how I’d want my son to mirror my behaviour when dealing with these things in his own life, not wanting him to get caught up with this mentally x

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